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Why am I feeling this way?
silver6
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Help people! I need something to calm me down. I've been having real stressful weeks at work and I need my two days(sat.& sun.) off every two weeks to spend with my fiance.
See I dont get to see here any other time. Just email and phone messages. Soo tonight she stops by my work(real surprise she never does that)and I was tickled. She starts goin what are we doin this weekend. I get kinda excited and I got all these ideas on what we can do. And she starts hintin around about me sleepin late and not doin anything. And then says on Saturday shes goin with some friends to do a bunch of stuff.
Oh I'm mad. Its Friday morning and you tell me this now! I feel like a jealous highschool kid, but I really was lookin forward to some stuff. Wouldn't be soo bad if when I want to go do something with the guys she wouldn't give me grief til I say forget it.
Soo what should I do? Blow it off or tell her how I feel? And then try to put something together with the guys?
If god meant for us to talk more than we listened he'd have given us one ear and two mouths- Vince Lombardi
See I dont get to see here any other time. Just email and phone messages. Soo tonight she stops by my work(real surprise she never does that)and I was tickled. She starts goin what are we doin this weekend. I get kinda excited and I got all these ideas on what we can do. And she starts hintin around about me sleepin late and not doin anything. And then says on Saturday shes goin with some friends to do a bunch of stuff.
Oh I'm mad. Its Friday morning and you tell me this now! I feel like a jealous highschool kid, but I really was lookin forward to some stuff. Wouldn't be soo bad if when I want to go do something with the guys she wouldn't give me grief til I say forget it.
Soo what should I do? Blow it off or tell her how I feel? And then try to put something together with the guys?
If god meant for us to talk more than we listened he'd have given us one ear and two mouths- Vince Lombardi
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Bad spellers of the world
"UNTIE!"
Girls get so involved with their families they loose touch
with eachother too. You go out with the guys and have fun,
let her have some time out too. Plan something nice for the
two of you on Sunday, and tell her not to stay out too
late, so she'll have some energy left for you on Sun.
Fair is Fair.
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Soo what should I do? Blow it off or tell her how I feel? And then try to put something together with the guys?
Can you say WHIPPED?
No question about it;
Blow it off and put something together with the guys!
Do you want her to feel smothered ... or that you are so "needy" she has to be with you every free moment?
Because of our schedules, my wife and I only get to see each other on Tuesday and Thursday nights and every-other Sunday. When she says she's going to do something with the girls, my standard response is "Can I film it? [;)][}:)]"
In reality, its my chance to do the things she doesn't particularly enjoy ... the last thing I'm going to do is mope around and waste a perfectly good weekend.
Member Since 8/29/1999
? otherwise, you'll find an excuse.
Let her go, you'll be glad you did later.
"Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it that the former does not submit to hereditary predjudices, but honestly and courageously uses his intelligence." - Albert E.
On my tombstone:"Keep you eyes on the road, your hands upon the wheel..."the Lizard King
its all about pucks and bucks
Rugster
"Toujours Pret"
To be honest, my ex was one of those guys who didn't want me to have girlfriends, he didn't understand why I would need anyone but him. I was his 'best friend', afterall, why shouldn't he be mine?
One of the reasons that I have surmised for my marriage "going south" is that this plan eventually backfired on him. How exhausting is it to be the only social outlet or emotional support for any person?
"Great spirits have always found violent opposition from mediocrities. The latter cannot understand it that the former does not submit to hereditary predjudices, but honestly and courageously uses his intelligence." - Albert E.
On my tombstone:"Keep you eyes on the road, your hands upon the wheel..."the Lizard King
Ben
Play Ball!!!
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Rugster
"Toujours Pret"
Enjoy you freedom now and let her do the same. One day you both will be sitting watching reruns waiting for the other to die. Don
I respect the truth too much to bring it out on every occasion.
The biggest regret of my life is the number of temptations I've resisted successfully.
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-Benjamin Franklin
Deal with it!
"If guns kill people, then I can blame my pencil for my spelling mistakes!" -- Larry the Cable Guy
quote:I need my two days(sat.& sun.) off every two weeks to spend with my fiance.
EVERY TWO WEEKS!!!!!!!!!!...She has 2 weekends to spend with her girlfriends out of a month....I think she should be spending time with you on your weekend off.....
To me she is being selfish if she is scheduling her girlfriends on the only time you guys have together when there are other weekends free.....and if the only time you see her is sat and sun every two weeks, then what about the rest of the month?...doesnt she have time for her girlfriends and other things so she can spend that time with you?...What is her reason for scheduling things with her friends on your days off?...
At least that is how I read it...
Lil' Stinker's Opinion
"Know the true value of time; snatch, seize, and enjoy every moment of it." Lord Chesterfield
Bad spellers of the world
"UNTIE!"
you write
Wouldn't be soo bad if when I want to go do something with the guys she wouldn't give me grief til I say forget it.
you got trouble coming and you don't even know it yet
Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. LIBERTY IS A WELL ARMED LAMB CONTESTING THE VOTE.....Benjamin Franklin ...1759...//// YOU KNOW WHAT IS REALLY ANNOYING? TO ENGAGE IN DEBATE WITH A PERSON'S INTELLECT, ONLY TO DISCOVER YOU ARE REALLY ARGUING WITH THEIR EGO!... MOLLY...2005
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If god meant for us to talk more than we listened he'd have given us one ear and two mouths- Vince Lombardi