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Oakie
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I am really mad right now, so excuse me. My sister's husband, has been playing around on my sister and I need some help proving it. It goes pretty deep. He has been texting sexual content to my wife and deletes what he sends her. We finally dug them back up today. My sister has been catching him in lie after lie. They went to their house boat for the weekend and when she walked in their bedroom, she found the bed unmade and two water bottles on the head board. He doesn't drink water from a bottle and they are not hers. He claims she left the bed unmade and she says, no friggen way. She is a clean freak and had just changed the sheets. He also started wearing different underwear and cologne. He got caught once before, about ten years ago and they worked things out. This was one of the reasons they moved to Texas near their daughter.
My sis doesn't have a lot of money, but for a few bucks, could someone help her out in tailing this jerk wad??? I can pay you. I just want this * out of my sisters life. I can send you cash. Just let us know where and with whom he is with. This jerk asked my wife to come to Texas without me so they could have an affair. My wife showed it to me and he deleted it off his phone and denies it. I sent my sister the text about 1/2 hour ago. This * is going down, that's a given, but we need proof for her lawyer. Oakie
My sis doesn't have a lot of money, but for a few bucks, could someone help her out in tailing this jerk wad??? I can pay you. I just want this * out of my sisters life. I can send you cash. Just let us know where and with whom he is with. This jerk asked my wife to come to Texas without me so they could have an affair. My wife showed it to me and he deleted it off his phone and denies it. I sent my sister the text about 1/2 hour ago. This * is going down, that's a given, but we need proof for her lawyer. Oakie
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You could be charged with a crime paying a civilian to "watch" {harass in legal terms} a legally married man to your sister.
I know it's not what you want to do, and may not "feel good" as good
catching him and applying some justice.
But you don't need to muddy up the case.
Instead of paying one of us to tail him the sex texts to YOUR wife from him should be sufficient for your sister to see he's a scumbag. If not don't know how tailing him will convince her anymore..plus it could put someone in danger if he catches onto the tail and thinks he might be in danger..does he carry? Tailing people should be left to cops & private investigators.
exactly
at what point of proof will be the breaking point ?
if you go through all this trouble for a bit more proof, and she stays guess what ? you are going to be the bad guy no matter what
My ex ran with anything that would have her and my lawyer said it didn't make a damn, she was going to get half regardless, AND SHE DID!! If no minor kids involved, get a divorce and move on. Tom
Instead of paying one of us to tail him the sex texts to YOUR wife from him should be sufficient for your sister to see he's a scumbag. If not don't know how tailing him will convince her anymore..plus it could put someone in danger if he catches onto the tail and thinks he might be in danger..does he carry? Tailing people should be left to cops & private investigators.
Oh, her lawyer is getting the texts on Monday morning. A PI wanted 1,800 to follow and take pictures. Just trying to help my sister. I don't care about the chit he sent to my wife, she hates him and showed it to me right away. My sister got a hold of his phone and saw he texted my wife and called us. He had deleted all the nasty stuff and just left one text that didn't make sense to her. That's how this all started today.[}:)]
How much more than half has her lawyer promised with adequate proof?
Secondly, in Texas, how common is it for a spouse to receive what her lawyer is promising, and what percentage of what is rightfully hers is he asking?
67% of 50% is a lot less than 50%.
Brad Steele
Why do you need to catch him doing anything. Just file for divorce saying uncompatable.
My ex ran with anything that would have her and my lawyer said it didn't make a damn, she was going to get half regardless, AND SHE DID!! If no minor kids involved, get a divorce and move on. Tom
more penalty phase than recon. Best to stay
out of it and do the lawyer thing.
This * is going down, that's a given, but we need proof for her lawyer.Poof of what?
For a lawyer in Texas to file a petition for divorce and get at least half of everything for his client he only needs proof they were married in the first place [:D]. It's a no-fault divorce, community property state.
Use that money of yours to retain a true divorce shark for her, but she needs to visit with him/her and learn how to get her ducks in a row before cluing that weasel in on what's coming.
BTW - You're a better man than me for not wanting to go stomp a mud hole in him and walk it dry.
"Never do wrong to make a friend----or to keep one".....Robert E. Lee
Dude, you've got way too many irons in the fire!!!
You will not be able to fight all these battles on so many different fronts. Sorry, but being honest.
Focus your activism, frustration, anger; shed the rest of the load and forge on.
Oakie, you're one man, dude...you can't fight everyone's battles. Your attitude is noble, but in the end you'll just wind up frustrated.
Trust me, I know!
Thank you[;)] Donna said, Stop trying to save the world and just let it go. I just hate to see my family or friends in a bad way. I know this is not my fight, but she is my sister and my confidant. When she calls, I jump. I guess i need to step back, catch my breath and let the lawyers do his own damn job. She is on disability and cannot afford a pi, yet alone the lawyer. I am paying for that since we are family. I won't let her get taken for a ride by him. This chit has happened before with him about ten years ago and we thought it was over. looks like the monster reared his ugly head
I wear my heart on my sleeve and I guess that is a bad thing sometime. Thanks for the advice FCD. I will take it. Sometimes I get so mad and don't think before I speak or type. This guy has me wound up. Thanks again. Oakie
I thought you recently posted y'all were tight fishing buddies and you were pulling his yacht down to him ?? [:0]
Did that comment make you feel better???
quote:Originally posted by Junkballer
I thought you recently posted y'all were tight fishing buddies and you were pulling his yacht down to him ?? [:0]
Did that comment make you feel better???
???.....Didn't intend to step on your toes just a recollection.......oh well never mind.
"Never do wrong to make a friend----or to keep one".....Robert E. Lee
quote:Originally posted by Oakie
quote:Originally posted by Junkballer
I thought you recently posted y'all were tight fishing buddies and you were pulling his yacht down to him ?? [:0]
Did that comment make you feel better???
???.....Didn't intend to step on your toes just a recollection.......oh well never mind.
No harm no foul. Just pissed. Not mad at you at all. Just hurt right now. Were still good man. Oakie