In order to participate in the GunBroker Member forums, you must be logged in with your GunBroker.com account. Click the sign-in button at the top right of the forums page to get connected.

TAKE HOLD OF EVERY MOMENT

alledanalledan Member Posts: 19,541
edited May 2002 in General Discussion
TAKE HOLD OF EVERY MOMENT
A friend of mine opened his wife's underwear drawer and picked up
a silk paper wrapped package: "This, - he said - isn't any ordinary
package."He unwrapped the box and stared at both the silk paper and the
box. "She got this the first time we went to New York, 8 or 9 years
ago.
She has never put it on. Was saving it for a special occasion.
Well, I guess this is it. He got near the bed and placed the gift box
next to the other clothings he was taking to the funeral house, his wife had just died. He turned to me and said:
"Never save something for a special occasion. Every day in your life is a special occasion".
I still think those words changed my life. Now I read more and clean
less. I sit on the porch without worrying about anything. I spend more time with my family, and less at work.
I understood that life should be a source of experience to be lived up
to, not survived through. I no longer keep anything. I use crystal glasses every day. I'll wear new clothes to go to the supermarket, if i feel like it. I don't save my special perfume for special occasions, I use it whenever I want to. The words "Someday..." and "One Day..." are fading away from my dictionary. If it's worth seeing, listening or doing, I want to see, listen or do it now. I don't know what my friend's wife would have done if she knew she wouldn't be there the next morning, this nobody can tell. I think she might have called her relatives and closest friends. She might call old friends to make peace over past quarrels. I'd like to think she would go out for Chinese, her favourite food. It's these small things that I would regret not doing, if I knew my time had come. I would regret it, because I would no longer see the friends I would meet, letters... letters that i wanted to write "One of this days". I would regret and feel sad, because I didn't say to my brothers and sons, not times enough at least, how much I love them. Now, I try not to delay, postpone or keep anything that could bring laughter and joy into our lives.
And, on each morning, I say to myself that this could be a special day.
Each day, each hour, each minute, is special.
If you got this, it's because someone cares for you and because,
probably, there's someone you care about. If you're too busy to send this out to other people and you say to yourself that you will send it "One of these days", remember that "One day" is far away... or might never come...


Never ask why but only the value of.

Comments

  • PiadeaPiadea Member Posts: 146 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Several years ago my 22 year old son was in a car accident. For a month he was in intensive care hovering between life and death. Gave me a lot of time to think. A couple of things I learned:

    ANYTHING YOU CAN FIX WITH MONEY DOESN'T MEAN MUCH.

    NOBODY PROMISES YOU A TOMORROW.

    He pulled through and took a long time to recover but he's still with me. My prayers were answered.
  • RickstirRickstir Member Posts: 574
    edited November -1
    In the homily of my first wife's funeral the priest asked what kind of message would she leave.....she was 49 when she died. He said her message would be.... Don't wait. Amen.

    Like in the NFL, defense is the key.
  • IconoclastIconoclast Member Posts: 10,515 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Reminders we all need and should heed. Every day. Thanks.
  • budmottbudmott Member Posts: 155 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    After a tornado smushed my home I learned
    several things:

    1. Don't holler about the kid putting stuff
    on her walls.
    2. Dogs will come when called, cats won't.
    3. Have phone number of a contractor and an
    apartment rental place in your billfold.
    4. Thank God every day for your blessings.

    later,
    bud

    If it weren't for lawyers, I wouldn't need a lawyer.
  • beantolebeantole Member Posts: 1,086 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I just turned 50. As I get older I believe that the only real important things in life are God, my family and good health. I know I may not have all three of those all my life but I think they are most important.

    Bruce
Sign In or Register to comment.