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secrets to a happy marriage
Harleeman1030
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1. It is important to find a woman that cooks and cleans.
2. It is important to find a woman that makes good money.
3. It is important to find a woman that likes to have sex.
4. It is important that these three women never meet.
Harleeman1030@aol.com
2. It is important to find a woman that makes good money.
3. It is important to find a woman that likes to have sex.
4. It is important that these three women never meet.
Harleeman1030@aol.com
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Its important to find a woman that likes to have sex.... in that one substitute
Its important to find a man who knows how to make love.. 50% dont.
Lil' Stinker's opinion
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Lil' Stinker's opinion
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barto
the hard stuff we do right away - the impossible takes a little longer
I dont "do samples".... I am medical... I have the studies..
v35
Men are shortchanged?... Bull tweet!! OOOOOOOOPS>. let me retract that... they only get shortchanged cause they shortchange the women first.... nanananannanannana...*LOL
Lil' Stinker's opinion
A great rifle with a junk scope,....is junk.
There's actually a line in the AA literature, when talking to people who may have had sex problems in the past, that says somethine like "we believe our sex powers are God-given, and therefore good." That for me is the bottom line. There is nothing "wrong" with a person who actually enjoys sex. In fact, they are healthy and no doubt better mentally adjusted than those who have problems with it.
There are few absolutes in life, but that, for me, is one. Sexual powers are God-given, and therefore basically good, between two consenting adults. I can't afford a woman who disagrees with that basic premise. They wind up treating a guy who likes sex as a "perpetrator." Not good.
I decided to indulge in a little self promotion (heheheheh!)
Offeror
- Life NRA Member
"If cowardly & dishonorable men shoot unarmed men with army guns, the evil must be prevented by the penitentiary...and not by general deprivation of constitutional privilege." - Arkansas Supreme Court, 1878
Edited by - offeror on 08/15/2002 12:05:40
There are countless studies showing that the person (male or female) that enjoys sex is healthier, lives longer, more stable, and generally happier than those who dont...and believe it or not, there are men that dont care for sex... not just the female of the species..
Lil' Stinker's opinion
BR, in all honesty, I think many men match the unflattering profile you paint, but in equal honesty there is considerable evidence to support the masculine gripes being expressed here.
Rugster
Tou Jours Pret
Edited by - Rugster on 08/15/2002 12:40:16
Edited by - Rugster on 08/15/2002 12:41:43
The other major cause of problems is a history of abuse, which seems to have the universal reaction of cheapening the act for the person involved and/or making it disgusting. I agree, it's far more often mental than physical, when it's a medical condition. Therapy is likely to be of the psychological variety, not the physical.
- Life NRA Member
"If cowardly & dishonorable men shoot unarmed men with army guns, the evil must be prevented by the penitentiary...and not by general deprivation of constitutional privilege." - Arkansas Supreme Court, 1878
Dont believe the stories of slowing down... if you maintain an active enjoyable sex life now, you will continue to do so even in to your 70's..barring any medical complications like diabetes..
Iconclast..
While its true that men are like the profile painted,, I said it was around 50%... the other 50% are wonderful, generous, loving, tender..feel free to put any adjective there.. *LOL
Lil' Stinker's opinion
Ok, so what all can guys do, to be considered loving and caring and insert any adjective you like. Inquiring minds want to know. If we don't run around, handle our share of the house work, take you to dinners, say we love you multiple times a day, spend the quite quality time together, just what types of subtle things can we do that would increase a womens sex drive? I do everything I can to be the husband that makes the other wives say "isn't he a great husband" LETS HEAR IT LADYS, LET US IN ON THE SECRET. PAAAALEEEEEEEEEEZZZZZZ it can only help us all.
BR, what medical conditions would exist causing this? chemical? hormonal? imbalance?
A great rifle with a junk scope,....is junk.
The only thing guys have to learn to have a happy marriage is 5 easy words.....
"I'm sorry. It's my fault."
Slow down as we get older? HORSE HOCKEY!!! I'm 67 and Mrs. Mudge says......well...never mind what she says...
Mudge the STUD
I can't come to work today. The voices said, STAY HOME AND CLEAN THE GUNS!
A woman who sits at a desk all day may say tired when she means wound tight, preoccupied. Relaxing after work is important, but requires unwinding. Men can help women unwind by helping them find the time and inclination for a shower or long bath, a back rub, or some chocolates. Maybe a little low light, a little incense, maybe something catered in by Waiter on the Way. If you hate giving backrubs, get a vibrator -- no, not that kind, a good Swedish massage vibrator that will do the work for you when you rub her back or legs and feet. That's what a woman who is "tired" from the office needs to relax. And a little mental diversion -- music, comedy, light entertainment, whatever. A moderate drink of alcohol, for non-addicts of course, is also good. No need for a major push. You don't even have to break a sweat. Just a little cooperation is enough.
- Life NRA Member
"If cowardly & dishonorable men shoot unarmed men with army guns, the evil must be prevented by the penitentiary...and not by general deprivation of constitutional privilege." - Arkansas Supreme Court, 1878
The tired thing, well.......how long does it take to relax? what kind of light entertainment have you found works? We are still a young couple who are into building our careers and trying to secure retirement and all that good stuff. It is a busy time in your life, and yes, it is when you are learning about finances, investing, career goals and advancement etc, so it is fast paced. But it also the point in your life when sex should be enjoyable and experimental, and fun. (don't anyone run away with that, you know what I mean). How does one begin to manage it all and NOT have your wife/girlfriend etc not feel tired? There has to be a formula for it. What wisdom can you bestow upon the younger members to help us all along the path.
A great rifle with a junk scope,....is junk.
Remember, always be a gentleman and in ANY situation 'LADIES first!'
Munke... er... Seth.
It's only overrated when it's readily available...
- Life NRA Member
"If cowardly & dishonorable men shoot unarmed men with army guns, the evil must be prevented by the penitentiary...and not by general deprivation of constitutional privilege." - Arkansas Supreme Court, 1878
It's only overrated when it's readily available...
As for sitting at a desk all day and being tired...its a proven fact, mentally tired is more draining than physically tired...
A difference in sex drives is the one of the most common reasons couples go into therapy... ONE.. not the only...One partner wants it all the time.. the other seems to never want it.. It is normal.. no two people have the same sex drive.. you have to talk to each other and reach a common ground..
JustC.. the secret?.. there is none really.. except the most common complaint women have about men.. FOREPLAY... and it all starts with the mind...
Foreplay starts with a look, glass of wine, music.etc....its not a "feel"..a pinch, a poke, then whammo!!!...
Read the other posts.. offeror, iconclast all offer good advice...but the most important thing?... ASK HER...
Lil' Stinker's opinion
Harleeman1030@aol.com
"It was like that when I got here".
Mudge the stud
I can't come to work today. The voices said, STAY HOME AND CLEAN THE GUNS!
Speak for other women?.. I dont have to.. they spoke for themselves.. Masters and Johnson for one, proved that..
Lil' Stinker's opinion
- Life NRA Member
"If cowardly & dishonorable men shoot unarmed men with army guns, the evil must be prevented by the penitentiary...and not by general deprivation of constitutional privilege." - Arkansas Supreme Court, 1878
THERAPY is a cope out that's how i feel and will always feel
my wife and mother both in the Med. field..
Studies: most of them are BS in my mind wait a few years the same people will say well now i think this might be the way
Harleeman1030@aol.com
Be quite honey i know what i am doing ...
!!!!!KaBOOM!!!!!
Edited by - harleeman1030 on 08/16/2002 05:38:43
As for a formula, I realize that it's just like a handload, every women is different, just like every rifle, so the recipe has to be exact and tailored only to one. Now, it is the determination of the components for the recipe which poses a particularly difficult task. As many people have found out, sometimes the least expected thing, action, or activity, may cause an unexpected spark or emotional response. I guess it is an activity in trial and error, taking into account things which you know are enjoyable or needed to and by your partner. No doubt, it is an ongoing process which requires constant maintanance and subtle changes. I learn more and more every day, but am as of yet, far from perfectly in tune. However, hearing suggestions and examples from other members does help to add fuel to the effort and enlighten those of us who are in younger stages of relationships and marriages than some of our more experienced members. I for one take to heart all advice I can from succesful spouses who have endeavored in the marriage arena longer than I, and maintained a level of success.
Offeror and Black Roses, I appreciate your responses and experiences.
4wheeler, I too, am still learning every day.
Teak, I know we are reading off the same page.
A great rifle with a junk scope,....is junk.
1. It is important to find a woman that cooks and cleans.
2. It is important to find a woman that makes good money.
3. It is important to find a woman that likes to have sex.
4. It is important that these three women never meet.
Harleeman1030@aol.com
I still think it would just be easier to keep the three women from meeting each other!
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Harleeman1030@aol.com
Be quite honey i know what i am doing ...
!!!!!KaBOOM!!!!!
There has to be a giver and a taker,not two takers.
She says that when a person has all the qualities of both and is vowing to stand on his or her "own two feet," they are much better suited to remain alone for life than be in a partnership.
She says a good relationship is like slow dancing, where only one partner can lead at a time, but you may switch off depending on what's going on, as long as there is cooperation and agreement about it.
Another of my favorite speakers on relationships says since there are so many dysfunctional couples, it is "normal" in this country to be dysfunctional. So if you want a healthy relationship, you have to be willing to be abnormal. I like this kind of thinking.
I am not a male chauvinist pig, nor would I consider myself "more" of a man if I were. I like smart, accomplished women. But it is nice when they can cook once in a while too.
- Life NRA Member
"If cowardly & dishonorable men shoot unarmed men with army guns, the evil must be prevented by the penitentiary...and not by general deprivation of constitutional privilege." - Arkansas Supreme Court, 1878