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What kind of Woman gets
armilite
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impregnated by her married boss, hides the pregnancy, never sees a doctor and then gives birth to a child that is born barely alive. I do have a point to make at a later time in this thread.
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She could also be either ignorant or scared.
yep, lets also hear about the 'dick' she slept with, he's gotta be a real winner himself,being a 'boss',married,,,,[;)][;)]
Please come forth with the 'problem', and we'll be able to fine-tune this discussion.
Thanks, Joe
No I'm not but this hits very close to home and I'm certainly not her parent.
Not the husband are you?
I don't do Agatha Christie.
Please come forth with the 'problem', and we'll be able to fine-tune this discussion.
Thanks, Joe
Well Joe just for you she is the mother of my sons son. In other words she is the mother of my sons 5 1/2 year old son. They haven't been together
since that one night. But to complicate things a wee bit more her twin sister is married to my son in laws cousin.
The whole thing makes me wonder how she treats my grandson when he is not with my son. There is no hostility between my son and her. My son does not pay any court ordered child support but he sends her a check every month. They split custody not court ordered about 50-50 as he attends a school 2 blocks from my sons house. Her sister who also lives close by keeps an eye on him as well as they have a daughter who is in the same class as he is in at school.
How long has she been working for you? [:D]
Dano normally I'd be laughing along with you but not this time. This is where all those ideas for made for TV movies come from. I'm worried about my grandson here.
So the son isn't his. Biologically
Well the son is but the new born daughter isn't.
impregnated by her married boss, hides the pregnancy, never sees a doctor and then gives birth to a child that is born barely alive.
Is your son the "married boss"?
Nevermind, seen the answer in the above post
I am no doctor but if they haven't been together sence the one night over 5 years ago I could have told you that
Well there seemed to be some confusion by others.
Now, if a girl in that position would just use her head,all that could be avoided...[;)]
quote:Originally posted by givette
I don't do Agatha Christie.
Please come forth with the 'problem', and we'll be able to fine-tune this discussion.
Thanks, Joe
Well Joe just for you she is the mother of my sons son. In other words she is the mother of my sons 5 1/2 year old son. They haven't been together
since that one night. But to complicate things a wee bit more her twin sister is married to my son in laws cousin.
The whole thing makes me wonder how she treats my grandson when he is not with my son. There is no hostility between my son and her. My son does not pay any court ordered child support but he sends her a check every month. They split custody not court ordered about 50-50 as he attends a school 2 blocks from my sons house. Her sister who also lives close by keeps an eye on him as well as they have a daughter who is in the same class as he is in at school.
It seems that the whole thing has been worked out without your intervention or knowledge. You can't undo or improve the situation and it's not yours to interfere with. From here you can make an exception in your guidelines of how other people are to conduct themselves, or you can choose another route that separates you from your family.
You stated there was a point you wanted to make later in the thread...
I saw your point, and I'm sorry for you having to put up/worry, but not to sound fascias facetious..... 9 months and nobody could tell she was prego.... Is she, lets say, extremely full figured?????
I've worked with a woman who was slender and worked right up to the point where she was about to give birth. She didn't tell anyone and nobody knew until she called in sick one day, stating that she was in the hospital to give birth. 2 weeks and a doctors note later and she was back to work. If I hadn't been a supervisor in the same general area and heard about it during a morning meeting I would have never known.
I saw your point, and I'm sorry for you having to put up/worry, but not to sound fascias..... 9 months and nobody could tell she was prego.... Is she, lets say, extremely full figured?????
No, she's not full figured. She spends a lot of time with her twin sister but you'd think the sister would notice. They are from a smaller town up north so she doesn't have a lot of friends here. Here circle of friends is relatively small.
Don
Sounds like their both a couple winners......
Don
Did ya forget the green again?[:)]
Ask your son, He evidently knows her well.[:D]
Is your son's wife still with him?
Another way to look at this is she is getting pregnant every five years. Certain welfare systems require more from welfare mothers not caring for pre school children. This pattern is more definate if the male is more of a sperm doner than in a relationship with the woman and the children are less cared for. Some of these mothers teach their children to steal as juveniles because risk is less for a juvenile than an adult if they get caught.
[:o)]barto[:o)]
She is the kind of woman that likes sex, and is not picky about whom it is with.
phone number please
But this is serious. Hope everyone is able to sort this out, and do the right thing.
Trash the girl all you want but it takes two to tango, has a paternity test been done?
Is your son's wife still with him?
Drobs has your reading comprehension fallen off the charts??? My son was with her one night 5 1/2 years ago. Together they bore a son, they were never together after that except at social functions where family is/was involved. And then again it wasn't all that often. They were never married nor was my son ever married. She did not even tell him that he had a son until he was 2 and a half years old. For the most part they were separated by 120 miles. Now after all this drama with my son she goes and doesn't it all over again and does it with a married guy, doesn't tell anyone she's pregnant and never sees a doctor until her water breaks. The child in her was not even connected to the placenta. My concern is how she treats her son my grandson if and when she is alone.
If she mistreats him in any way like she did her recent pregnancy I'm very concerned for my grandsons welfare and safety as well as my sons concern as well.
She moved back to town about a year ago and took a job on the other side of town. Apparently she said she quit due to all the drama at work and now we see that drama unfolding. She said she got another job as a cashier but we now know she never did.
Her daddy pays for everything bought her a pickup truck, rented her a house and pays for what ever else she needs money for.
I'm not saying my son is innocent here but he has stepped up and played his part in the rearing of a child. I would have thought she learned her lesson once and this was the purpose of this entire thread.
quote:Originally posted by drobs
Trash the girl all you want but it takes two to tango, has a paternity test been done?
Is your son's wife still with him?
Drobs has your reading comprehension fallen off the charts??? My son was with her one night 5 1/2 years ago. Together they bore a son, they were never together after that except at social functions where family is/was involved. And then again it wasn't all that often. They were never married nor was my son ever married. She did not even tell him that he had a son until he was 2 and a half years old. For the most part they were separated by 120 miles. Now after all this drama with my son she goes and doesn't it all over again and does it with a married guy, doesn't tell anyone she's pregnant and never sees a doctor until her water breaks. The child in her was not even connected to the placenta. My concern is how she treats her son my grandson if and when she is alone.
If she mistreats him in any way like she did her recent pregnancy I'm very concerned for my grandsons welfare and safety as well as my sons concern as well.
She moved back to town about a year ago and took a job on the other side of town. Apparently she said she quit due to all the drama at work and now we see that drama unfolding. She said she got another job as a cashier but we now know she never did.
Her daddy pays for everything bought her a pickup truck, rented her a house and pays for what ever else she needs money for.
I'm not saying my son is innocent here but he has stepped up and played his part in the rearing of a child. I would have thought she learned her lesson once and this was the purpose of this entire thread.
You have a reason to be concerned about the welfare of your grandson.
She sounds nutty to me.
quote:Originally posted by armilite
quote:Originally posted by drobs
Trash the girl all you want but it takes two to tango, has a paternity test been done?
Is your son's wife still with him?
Drobs has your reading comprehension fallen off the charts??? My son was with her one night 5 1/2 years ago. Together they bore a son, they were never together after that except at social functions where family is/was involved. And then again it wasn't all that often. They were never married nor was my son ever married. She did not even tell him that he had a son until he was 2 and a half years old. For the most part they were separated by 120 miles. Now after all this drama with my son she goes and doesn't it all over again and does it with a married guy, doesn't tell anyone she's pregnant and never sees a doctor until her water breaks. The child in her was not even connected to the placenta. My concern is how she treats her son my grandson if and when she is alone.
If she mistreats him in any way like she did her recent pregnancy I'm very concerned for my grandsons welfare and safety as well as my sons concern as well.
She moved back to town about a year ago and took a job on the other side of town. Apparently she said she quit due to all the drama at work and now we see that drama unfolding. She said she got another job as a cashier but we now know she never did.
Her daddy pays for everything bought her a pickup truck, rented her a house and pays for what ever else she needs money for.
I'm not saying my son is innocent here but he has stepped up and played his part in the rearing of a child. I would have thought she learned her lesson once and this was the purpose of this entire thread.
You have a reason to be concerned about the welfare of your grandson.
She sounds nutty to me.
And her sister and her sisters husband are thinking the same thing in fact we heard that she was thinking of getting some help.
And I didn't even get to the part with the 3 DUI's including jail time and the part where she rolled the SUV she was driving on her way to pick up my grandson from my sons house.
I thank the Lord she did it before she got there.
quote:Originally posted by we_dig_it
quote:Originally posted by armilite
quote:Originally posted by drobs
Trash the girl all you want but it takes two to tango, has a paternity test been done?
Is your son's wife still with him?
Drobs has your reading comprehension fallen off the charts??? My son was with her one night 5 1/2 years ago. Together they bore a son, they were never together after that except at social functions where family is/was involved. And then again it wasn't all that often. They were never married nor was my son ever married. She did not even tell him that he had a son until he was 2 and a half years old. For the most part they were separated by 120 miles. Now after all this drama with my son she goes and doesn't it all over again and does it with a married guy, doesn't tell anyone she's pregnant and never sees a doctor until her water breaks. The child in her was not even connected to the placenta. My concern is how she treats her son my grandson if and when she is alone.
If she mistreats him in any way like she did her recent pregnancy I'm very concerned for my grandsons welfare and safety as well as my sons concern as well.
She moved back to town about a year ago and took a job on the other side of town. Apparently she said she quit due to all the drama at work and now we see that drama unfolding. She said she got another job as a cashier but we now know she never did.
Her daddy pays for everything bought her a pickup truck, rented her a house and pays for what ever else she needs money for.
I'm not saying my son is innocent here but he has stepped up and played his part in the rearing of a child. I would have thought she learned her lesson once and this was the purpose of this entire thread.
You have a reason to be concerned about the welfare of your grandson.
She sounds nutty to me.
And her sister and her sisters husband are thinking the same thing in fact we heard that she was thinking of getting some help.
And I didn't even get to the part with the 3 DUI's including jail time and the part where she rolled the SUV she was driving on her way to pick up my grandson from my sons house.
I thank the Lord she did it before she got there.
Maybe you (or your son) should consider taking her to court and prove her incompitant to raise the child. I would try to gain custody of the child. Its not as hard to do these days as it use to be.