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Had to put my old dog down today

jujujuju Member Posts: 6,321
edited June 2002 in General Discussion
13 years I had her, mixture of shepard and collie. Got her from the pound. She was a good dog and I am gonna miss her. Cancer spread to far and I had to have her put down. Wife and I been married 27 years and no kids, this dog was special to us. Gonna be different around the house now. May you rest in peace Baby, We miss you.

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  • simonbssimonbs Member Posts: 994
    edited November -1
    Damn, always hate to hear stuff like that. My condolences.

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  • jackray76jackray76 Member Posts: 3 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    I know exactly what you mean. No offense but I still get choked up at "Old Yellar" I had to put down a family mutt of 15 years last fall.
  • William81William81 Member Posts: 25,503 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Sorry to hear of your loss....

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  • 4GodandCountry4GodandCountry Member Posts: 3,968
    edited November -1
    Im sorry to hear about your loss, alot of people don't understand that they become active members of the family. I lost a boxer last summer and he was like one of my kids, it was hard to take. I didn't get him til he was a year old and he had already had three other owners. He was a bit of a free spirit and thats what cost him his life.I decided shortly after that the best thing to do was get another boxer. I can tell you from experience it sure helped my family get over the loss. I still miss my old friend, but I wouldn't trade my new one for two old ones.

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  • Gordian BladeGordian Blade Member Posts: 1,202 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I started a thread a while back about how dogs are a lot smarter than my psychology prof in college would admit. I'm sure you will miss her almost as much as a human. Just remember the good times and also that your dog was counting on you to make the right decision at the end.
  • Ms. BeastMs. Beast Member Posts: 496 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    juju: Sorry to hear about the loss of your friend/dog. We had our dog of 13 years put down a few years back, still hard to deal with. He is in our yard by the lilac bush with a nice cross by him. A friend sent this to us at that time:

    The Rainbow Bridge
    Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

    When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to
    Rainbow Bridge.
    There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
    There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

    All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were
    hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams
    of days and times gone by.
    The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very
    special to them, who had to be left behind.

    They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the
    distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from
    the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

    You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together
    in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands
    again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so
    long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

    Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

    Author unknown...
  • whiteclouderwhiteclouder Member Posts: 10,574 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I don't cry very often, but that would do it. Sorry you've lost your friend.

    Clouder..
  • He DogHe Dog Member Posts: 51,593 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry JuJu, I have been there exactly. Lost a very special cat to cancer at 13 years. It is just way too hard. Remember the good times and she will always be with you! It is a blessing that we can make the choice to end suffering for our animal friends.
  • royc38royc38 Member Posts: 2,235 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Around Thanksgiving had to put my dog to sleep. He was 14. For a German sheperd thats about the longest I could ask for I guess. But always remember your friend and if you look around hard enough you will find they live on in another puppy. Another new friend just might be the thing. Good luck and fantastic hunting.
  • JustCJustC Member Posts: 16,056 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Get choked up just thinking about my oldest having 3-4 more years. Very sorry to hear of your loss, pets are the worst thing to lose. Psychology prof. back in college, told us that it's because they depended on us for everything and trusted and loved without question. Always a sad day,... never will be easy.

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  • varmit huntervarmit hunter Member Posts: 1,674 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    JuJu,Very sorry about your dog. I have had to bury three this year.One15,one 12,And a young one. I think the older I get the more it hurts. Not so sure they dont take a little of our soul with them. Wish I had words to make the pain lighter.

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  • thunderboltthunderbolt Member Posts: 6,041 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    It's a hard thing to have to do. Sorry for your loss. Not that you can replace a good dog, but get a puppy as soon as your heart will let you.
  • RembrandtRembrandt Member Posts: 4,486 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Sorry to hear of your loss, they give constant love and companionship and only want to be petted and fed in return...in some respects, their more dependable than people...
  • shootinfoolshootinfool Member Posts: 219 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    JuJu, sorry you lost a close companion. I too have an old dog that is getting on in years. I cherish every day I have with her. Cherish your memories of your old companion. Think about getting a new puppy to make new bonds with.
  • CS8161CS8161 Member Posts: 13,596 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I am sorry for the loss of your pet. I watch my old dog and see signs that he is rapidly aging and it breaks my heart. He is eleven and I don't know what I'm gonna do without him. He and I have put alot of miles togtether, wandering thru Montana, Wyoming and Colorado. He is a great traveler and enjoys the trips as much as I do.
    I was raised Catholic and one day when I was nine, I asked a priest at my school if my dog will be in heaven waiting for me when I get there. He looked me straight in the eye and said to me, that dogs do not go to heaven, they have no soul. I asked him, how can it be heaven if my dog won't be there? He had no answer. I stopped believing in the Catholic church that very day.

    Chris8161
    Admit nothing, deny everything, demand proof!

    Edited by - Chris8161 on 06/12/2002 08:10:40
  • spclarkspclark Member Posts: 408
    edited November -1
    Losing old friends is always a hard thing to get past (i've lost many, some had four legs, some only two).

    You did the right thing though in not letting your friend suffer the pain & indignity some are forced to endure, when their "keepers" won't face up to the inevitable.

    My heart goes out to you and your family; remember the good times.
  • n/an/a Member Posts: 168,427
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry for your loss.. they are not pets.. but very special friends..
    You and your wife will be in our prayers.. baby too..
  • buy_a_gunbuy_a_gun Member Posts: 12 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    I too lost my best friend,recently. 13Years wasn't near enough for us both I am sure. I only went 3 days with out her and now I have Tara. A puppy that is running around nuts as I type this and I love it. Wow what a lot of work .Like taking care of a kid. No doubt I can never replace my Beauty. Tara is a Pitbull just like my Beauty. Loyal devoted and loving all the way! You too I am sure already have thought of getting another partner. I encourage it. The healing is faster and wow, what fun a puppy can be. Energy you thought you haven't had in at least half of those 13 years is revitalizied spelling?. My friend I feel your pain. I have made a special place at my home to bury my friend, planted flowers and care for her spot on her land and on my property. I have also joined a website and uploaded photos that when I surf and she comes back to me I go and visit, she was a faithful partner and I miss her and always will. Peace and know you will meet again someday.

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  • nunnnunn Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 36,085 ******
    edited November -1
    I am very sorry for your loss, and for the terrible decision you had to make. I have been where you are, and it was no fun.

    I still get a lump when I think of my old Collie mix, Nick. Nearly 15 years old, blind, deaf, toothless, and lame, but he got by fine until he developed throat cancer. That was 20 years ago and I still miss him. I wish he had just died instead of making me decide for him.

    He was my friend from the time I was 14 until I was 29. If dogs have a heaven, I hope there are squirrels to tree, and plenty of Cottonmouths and armadillos to kill.

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  • offerorofferor Member Posts: 8,625 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Very sorry. I too know the pain. I agree with nunn. Doggies deserve a heaven, so if God is really good, I have no doubt there is one, with fresh streams, great food, grass to roll in, sunshine, shade and critters to chase.

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  • REBJrREBJr Member Posts: 1,210 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    JUJU - Sorry to hear about your loss. Its fresh for me too, I've buried 2 in the past month for an elderly friend, last one 3 days ago. -Ralph

    Nothing very, very good or very, very bad lasts for very, very long.
  • RancheroPaulRancheroPaul Member Posts: 1,459 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Yes, only Rainbow Bridge makes it better.....read Mrs. Beasts post again.......And now you know where she is......waiting for you! I know you wouldn't want her back suffering as she was. She's whole again and healthy! What a wonderful place to be!
  • pickenuppickenup Member Posts: 22,844 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Been there, had to do that. Last winter after 16 good years. I know how it feels. Kinda takes the wind out of your sails for a while.

    If I knew then, what I know now.
  • mcneely77mcneely77 Member Posts: 411 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Sorry to hear the bad news Juju. I had to give up our dog of only 21/2 years. It was painful enough. I can't imagine what you are going through.

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  • Laredo LeftyLaredo Lefty Member Posts: 13,451 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Juju,, sorry about your pooch. I had to put down my collie years ago. Our whole family took it hard. After talking to the vet and making the decision, I took her home for the night so my kids could say goodby, then took her back the next day. I walked out of the animal hospital in tears.
    They are truly mans best friend !
  • bartobarto Member Posts: 4,734 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    as i type this im looking at my 12 yr old dalmation with all the lumps developing on her chest.
    i feel nothing but sorrow for your loss.
    we know we all have to go sometime but that sure doesnt make it any easier when the time comes.
    again; my condolences.
    barto

    the hard stuff we do right away - the impossible takes a little longer
  • ClairClair Member Posts: 679 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    A good freind sent me this when I lost my best freind of 13 Years.
    It's been 2 years, but I still miss him.



    Remembering an old friend



    I remember bringing you home. You were so small and cuddly with your tiny paws and soft fur. You bounced around the room with eyes flashing and ears flopping. Once in a while, you'd let out a little yelp, just to let me know this was your territory. Making a mess of the house and chewing on everything in sight became a passion, and when I scolded you, you just put your head down and looked up at me with those innocent eyes, as if to say, " I'm sorry, but I'll do it again as soon as you're not watching."
    As you got older, you protected me by looking out the window and barking at everyone who walked by. When I had a tough day at work, you would be waiting for me with your tail wagging just to say, "Welcome home. I missed you." You never had a bad day, and I could always count on you to be there for me. When I sat down to read the paper and watch TV, you would hop on my lap, looking for attention. You never ask for anything more than to have me pat your head so you could go to sleep with your head over my leg.
    As you got older, you moved around more slowly. Then, one day, old age finally took its toll, and you couldn't stand on those wobbly legs anymore. I knelt down, and patted you lying there, trying to make you young again. You just looked at me as if to say you were tired and that after all these years of not asking for anything, you had to ask me for one last favor.
    With tears in my eyes, I drove you one last time to the vet. One last time , you were lying next to me. For some strange reason, you were able to stand up in the animal hospital; perhaps it was your sense of pride. As the vet lead you away, you stopped for an instant, turned your head and looked at me as if to say, "Thank you for taking care of me." I thought, "No, thank you for taking care of me."
  • gunpaqgunpaq Member Posts: 4,607 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Sorry to hear about your loss. I had to put down my best buddy, Mupps the wonder beagle, 20 years ago and have not had another pet since.

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  • axlerfanaxlerfan Member Posts: 713 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Very sorry for your loss my friend. Its coming close to that time for me also. My Lucky dog has lost one eye, going blind inthe other, and has cancer spreading pretty fast. for now shes doing ok but i know one day soon the time will come. not looking forward to it.
  • kimberkidkimberkid Member Posts: 8,858 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    juju - sorry for your loss.

    After loosing a family member that happened to be a sheppard mix, it was 4 years until I got another dog ... Its funny, I see a lot of Gretchen in Katie, even though she's a lab mix and doesn't have a mean bone in her body, she won't let a stranger in the yard if Abby (20 months) is outside playing ... just like Gretchen, she's very protective of children ... makes me wonder if she came back.

    Best,
    kk

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  • nordnord Member Posts: 6,106
    edited November -1
    Juju,

    Words won't ever express what you feel. Two years ago this evening I sent my dear friend Trudy to her maker as I could no longer care for her and protect her.

    Trudy was a yellow lab... Intelligent, gentle, lazy, and pretty much an old fart. She never wore a collar, never needed one! We knew her name even before she was born and saw her for the first time only a few hours after she arrived on this earth.

    Trudy came to live with us when she was only five weeks old and tormented Jennifer (our resident geriatric lab at the time) until she gained a nick on the right ear that she wore for the rest of her life.
    And Trudy gave Jennifer two added years. She was so special!

    Trudy's last hours with us were almost a miracle. She had cancer and it slowly devoured her body. On her abdomen was a huge tumor. As far as we could tell it caused no pain, but it did cause her to loose control of her * functions. At almost 13 years of age, I couldn't bear to put her through a fruitless operation that would have been more for me than her. Still, our last hours were wonderful. We all cried (as I'm doing now), we all got to tell Trudy how much we loved her, we all said goodbye, and we all knew... And she knew as well as any of us.

    Trudy's life ended by my own hand at 1:30 a.m on the 13th of June. It was everything I didn't want, yet it was strangely peaceful and intimate. I sent her to my maker in the hope and trust that He will care for her until I see her again.

    Trudy's grave is in a quiet spot next to the creek she so dearly loved for much of her life. I keep it mowed and there are wildflowers planted there. We speak often and I remember. I always will.

    There are those who will understand, others that won't. All I can say is that I do. I hope your hurt diminishes rapidly. Your friend would want it that way.

    Nord
  • bullelkbullelk Member Posts: 679 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    juju,
    I'm sorry to hear about your loss, losing your dog is like losing a blood member of your family. My condolences.
    Gino
  • rscoleman88rscoleman88 Member Posts: 4,250
    edited November -1
    My best wishes to you and the wife.

    Respect those who protect us now just as you would those who died for us in the past.
  • hunter280manhunter280man Member Posts: 705
    edited November -1
    Sorry to hear of your loss; I put my hunting partner down last august with heat stroke, I hope yours was easier. I'm still taking down the dog pen, today in fact.

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  • 4wheeler4wheeler Member Posts: 3,441
    edited November -1
    Sorry for your loss,been there. I had a dog named Trouble,he went everywhere with me. He would stay in back of truck in the driveway even in the rain, wanting to ride. No one could stick their hands in the back of my truck or they would lose them. The bed of my truck belonged to him. He got sick and vet said there was no hope and I had him put to sleep.

    "It was like that when I got here".
  • jo-danjo-dan Member Posts: 57 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Juju,
    So sorry to hear about your canine friend.
    I wish you comfort in your time of sorrow.
    jo
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