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Dear Abby
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Dear Abby,
My husband is not happy with my mood swings. The
other day, he bought me a mood ring so he would be
able to monitor my moods. When I'm in a good mood
it turns green. When I'm in a bad mood it leaves a
big frickin red mark on his forehead. Maybe next
time he'll buy me a diamond.[B)][:0]
Sincerely,
bichhin in Wisconsin
The journey of a thousand miles begins with a broken
fan belt and a leaky tire.
To Ride, shoot straight,and speak the truth
This was the Ancient law of Youth
Old times are past, old times are done:
But the Law runs true, O little son!
My husband is not happy with my mood swings. The
other day, he bought me a mood ring so he would be
able to monitor my moods. When I'm in a good mood
it turns green. When I'm in a bad mood it leaves a
big frickin red mark on his forehead. Maybe next
time he'll buy me a diamond.[B)][:0]
Sincerely,
bichhin in Wisconsin
The journey of a thousand miles begins with a broken
fan belt and a leaky tire.
To Ride, shoot straight,and speak the truth
This was the Ancient law of Youth
Old times are past, old times are done:
But the Law runs true, O little son!
Comments
I recently read your column advising grandparents to practice "tough love" on misbehaving grandchildren whose own parents let them run wild. I have followed your advice, and enclose a picture demonstrating my technique when my grandson just won't behave while I'm baby sitting for his parents. They have told me NOT to spank him, so I just take him for a ride, and he usually calms down afterward.
Sign me,
Tough Love Grandma
Got a new gun for my ex-wife.....pretty good trade, huh?
My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from
the beginning, and when I confront him, he denies everything.
What's worse, everyone knows he cheats on me. It is so
humiliating. Also, since he lost his job three years ago he
hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does is buy cigars
cruise around and oatmeal with his pals, while I have to work
to pay the bills.
Since our daughter went away to college he doesn't even
pretend to like me and hints that I am a lesbian. What
should I do? Signed, Clueless
Dear Clueless:
Grow up and dump him. For Pete's sake, you don't need him
anymore. You're a United States senator from New York. Act
like it!
My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning, and, when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse, everyone knows that he cheats on me. It is so humiliating. Also, since he lost his job 14 years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one.
All he does all day is smoke cigars, cruise around and shoot the bull with his buddies, while I have to work to pay the bills.
Since our daughter went away to college he doesn't even pretend to like me, and even hints that I may be a lesbian.
What should I do?
Signed: Clueless
Dear Clueless:
Grow up and dump him. You don't need him anymore! Good grief woman, you're running for President of the United States.
My husband has a long record of money problems. He runs up huge credit card bills and at the end of the month, if I try to pay them off, he shouts at me, saying I am stealing his money. He says pay the minimum and let our kids worry about the rest, but already we can hardly keep up with the interest.
Also he has been so arrogant and abusive toward our neighbors that most of them no longer speak to us. The few that do are an odd bunch to whom he has been giving a lot of expensive gifts, running up our bills even more. Also, he has gotten religious. One week he hangs out with Catholics and the next with people who say the Pope is the Anti-Christ, and the next he's on his knees 7 times a day with Muslims.
Finally, the last straw. He's demanding that before anyone can be in the same room with him, they must sign a loyalty oath. It's just so horribly creepy!
Can you help?
Signed,
Lost
Dear Lost,
Suck it up and stop whining, Michelle. You're getting to live in the White House for free, travel the world, and have others pay for everything for you. You can divorce the jerk any time you want. The rest of us are stuck with the idiot for 2 more years.
Signed,
Abby
I've never written to you before, but I really need your advice on what could be a crucial decision. I've suspected for some time
now that my wife has been cheating on me.
The usual signs... Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently
although when I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from work, you don't know them."
I always stay awake to look out for her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive, although I can hear a car setting
off, as if she has gotten out of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn't in a taxi? I once picked her cell phone up just to
see what time it was and she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.
Anyway, I have never broached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she
went out again and I decided to really check on her.
I decided I was going to park my Harley-Davidson Dyna Wide Glide next to the garage and then hide behind it so I could get a good
view of the whole street when she comes home. It was at that moment, crouching behind my Harley, that I noticed that the rocker
boxes on my engine seem to be leaking a little oil. Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to the dealer?
Thanks,
I am a crack dealer in New Jersey who has recently been diagnosed as a
carrier of the HIV virus. My parents live in a suburb of Philadelphia and one of my sisters, who lives in Bensenville, is married to a transvestite.
My father and mother have recently been arrested for growing and selling marijuana and are currently dependent on my other two sisters, who are prostitutes in Jersey City. I have two brothers. One
is currently serving a non-parole life sentence in Attica for murder of a teenage boy in 1994. The other brother is currently being held in the Wellington Remand Center on charges of sexual misconduct with his three children.
I have recently become engaged to marry a former Thai prostitute who lives in the Bronx and is still a part time "working girl" in a brothel. Her time there is limited as we hope to open our own brothel with her as the working manager. I am hoping my two sisters would be interested in joining our team. Although I would prefer them not to prostitute themselves, it would get them off the street, and hopefully, their heroin habits.
All things considered, my main problem is this. I love my fiancee and look forward to bringing her into the family and I certainly want to be totally honest with her. Should I tell her about my distant
cousin who is French?
Signed,
Worried About My Reputation[8]
As a policeman, I was very disappointed to read about the officer who leaves his duty weapon out on the kitchen table. Even if there were no children in the house, it's a dangerous thing to do.
We are supposed to take gun safety seriously. I find it disturbing when fellow officers do not. We are taught from day one to never, ever lose control of our sidearm.
I would strongly suggest that "Upset in Washington" talk one more time to her husband. He could lose his job over this. Or she could buy a small gun safe, and next time she finds the gun on the table, lock it up for him. Notice, I didn't say anything about giving him the combination.
DISMAYED, in Colorado
Dear Dismayed:
Although I heard from more than a few readers who thought my advice to report the officer to his police chief was harsh, I think you are being too soft. Read on for a sample of the horror stories that letter generated:
Dear Abby:
I am a law enforcement officer in Texas. A fellow officer lost his teenage daughter to suicide. Even though his gun had been hidden in a high cupboard, away from view, she found it and, unfortunately, succeeded in terminating her young life.
"Upset in Washington" should check to see if the police department in her city has regulations about this. Maybe she should call and speak to his supervisor and ask about the availability of gun locks for the weapon issued to her husband. This needs to be done ASAP.
OFFICER, in Texas
Dear Abby:
Your advice was right on. That wife should definitely report her husband to his chief. In our city a year ago, a police officer's son got ahold of his loaded gun and shot and killed his 5-year-old sister. Kids just don't realize the danger, so parents have to.
SHARON, in Vancouver, Wash.
Dear Abby:
I lost my son three years ago under these very circumstances. My sister, a police officer, failed to secure her weapon. "Upset" should personally hand-deliver her husband's gun to the police chief the next time it is lying around.
MISSING OUR SON, in Milwaukee
What's worse, everyone knows he cheats on me. It is so humiliating. Also, since he lost his job three years ago he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he does is buy cigars and cruise around and play with his pals, while I have to work to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to college he doesn't even pretend to like me and hints to everyone that I >am a lesbian. What should I do?
Signed, Clueless
Dear Clueless:
Grow up and dump him. For Pete's sake, you don't need him anymore --
You're a United States Senator from New York now.
My husband has a long record of money problems. He runs up huge
credit-card bills, and at the end of the month, if I try to pay them off, he
shouts at me, saying I am stealing his money. He says pay the minimum...let
our kids worry about the rest, but we can hardly keep up with the interest.
Also, he has been so arrogant, and abusive toward our neighbors that most of
them no longer speak to us. The few that do are an odd bunch, to whom he has
been giving a lot of expensive gifts, running up our bills even more. He has
also gotten religious. One week he hangs out with Catholics, the next with
people who say the Pope is the Anti-Christ, and the next he's with Muslims.
Finally, he's demanding that before anyone can be in the same room with him,
they must sign a loyalty oath. It's just so horribly creepy! Can you help?
Signed, Lost
Dear Lost,
Suck it up, and stop whining, Michelle. You're getting to live in the
White House for free, travel the world, and have others pay for everything.
You can divorce the jerk anytime. The rest of us are stuck with him for 3
more years.
Abby
My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the
beginning, and, when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse,
everyone knows that he cheats on me. It is so humiliating. Also,since he
lost his job six years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one. All he
does all day is smoke cigars, cruise around and B.S. With his buddies while
I have to work to pay the bills. Since our daughter went away to college he
doesn't even pretend to like me and hints that I may be a lesbian. What
should I do?
Signed: Clueless
Dear Clueless,
Grow up and dump him. Good grief, woman. You don't need him
>anymore! You're a United States Senator from New York running for President of the United States. Act like one
I am a crack dealer in Beaumont, Texas who has recently been diagnosed
as a carrier of HIV virus. My parents live in Fort Worth. One of my
sisters lives in Pflugerville and is married to a transvestite.
My father and mother have recently been arrested for growing and
selling marijuana. They are financially dependent on my other two
sisters, who are prostitutes in Dallas.
I have two brothers; one is currently serving a non-parole life
sentence at Huntsville for the murder of a teenage boy in 1994. My other
brother is currently in jail awaiting charges of sexual misconduct with
his three children.
I have recently become engaged to marry a former prostitute who lives
in Longview. She is a part time 'working girl'.
All things considered, my problem is this. I love my fianc? and look
forward to bringing her into the family. I certainly want to be totally open and honest with her.
Should I tell her about my cousin who supports Hillary Clinton for
President?
Signed,
Worried About My Reputation
I've never written to you before, but I really need your advice
on what could be a crucial decision. I've suspected for some
time now that my wife has been cheating on me. The usual
signs... Phone rings but if I answer, the caller hangs up. My
wife has been going out with the girls a lot recently although
when I ask their names she always says, "Just some friends from
work, you don't know them." I always stay awake to look out for
her taxi coming home, but she always walks down the drive,
although I can hear a car setting off, as if she has gotten out
of the car round the corner. Why? Maybe she wasn't in a taxi? I
once picked her cell phone up just to see what time it was and
she went berserk and screamed that I should never touch her
phone again and why was I checking up on her. Anyway, I have
never broached the subject with my wife. I think deep down I
just didn't want to know the truth, but last night she went out
again and I decided to really check on her. I decided I was
going to park my Harley Davidson Lowrider next to the garage and
then hide behind it so I could get a good view of the whole
street when she comes home. It was at that moment, crouching
behind my Harley, that I noticed that the rocker boxes on my
engine seem to be leaking a little oil.
Is this something I can fix myself or should I take it back to
the dealer?
Thanks,
HarleyMan
the beginning, and when I confront him he denies everything.
What's worse, everyone knows he cheats on me. It is so humiliating.
Also since he lost his job two years ago he hasn't even
looked for a new one. All he does is sit around the living
room in his underwear and watch TV, while I work to pay the
bills. Since our daughter went away to college he doesn't
even pretend to like me. He keeps calling me a lesbian.
What should I do?
Signed,
Clueless
Dear Clueless:
Dump him. Since you became a New York senator you
don't need him anymore.
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ATF
My husband has a long record of money problems. He runs up huge credit-card bills and at the end of the month, if I try to pay them off, he shouts at me, saying I am stealing his money. He says pay the minimum and lets our kids worry about the rest, but already we can hardly keep up with the interest.
Also he has been so arrogant and abusive toward our neighbors that most of them no longer speak to us. The few that do are an odd bunch, to whom he has been giving a lot of expensive gifts, running up our bills even more. Also, he has gotten religious. One week he hangs out with Catholics and the next with people who say the Pope is the Anti-Christ, and the next he's with Muslims.. Finally, the last straw. He's demanding that before anyone can be in the same room with him, they must sign a loyalty oath. It's just so horribly creepy! Can you help?
Signed,
Lost in DC
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Dear Lost:
Stop whining, Michelle. You're getting to live in the White House for free, travel the world, and have others pay for everything for you. You can divorce the jerk any time you want. The rest of us are stuck with the SOB for two more years!
Signed,
Abb
in the morning and hop in his fancy car to visit his cronies. I know he`s
cheated on me many times with young girls who could be his grand daughters.
I know because he brags about this to me. He smokes fancy cigars and
drinks the most expensive Champagne day and night. We sleep in separate
beds because he`s always telling me he knows I`m a lesbian and my varicose
veins and hairy back turn him off!
Should I clobber him with my frying pan, or should I leave him, Abby ?
Your advice would be appreciated .....
Mad as Hell
Dear Mad as Hell,
You don`t have to take that kind of treatment from any man. I suggest you
pack your bags and move out a.s.a.p.! Don`t resort to clobbering him with
the frying pan , and try to act like a lady!
Remember ....... you`re running for President of the United States , so try
acting like one !
Abby
My husband is a lying cheat. He tells me he loves me, but he has
cheated our entire marriage. He is a good provider and has many friends and supporters. They know he is a lying cheat, but they just avoid the issue.
He is a hard worker but many of his co-workers are leery of him. Every time he gets caught, he denies it all. Then he admits that he was wrong and begs me to forgive him. This has been going on for so long, everyone in town knows he is a cheat. Just because I am a lesbian he chooses to ignore me at home.
I don't know what to do.
Signed, Frustrated.................
Dear Frustrated:.................
You should dump him. Now that you are finally a New York Senator, you don't need him anymore.
Quod principi placuit legis habet vigorem.Semper Fidelis
Big Daddy my heros have always been cowboys,they still are it seems
81st FA BN WWII...Thanks Dad
U!S!A! ALL THE WAY!!
NSDQ!
"Also I heard the voice of the Lord saying who shall I send, and who will go for us? Then said I, here am I, send me."
Mateomasfeo
"I am what I am!" - Popeye
I can think of a couple of youngsters I'd like to see from that angle! [;)]
Daresay my parents should have tried that a few times . . . and I probably would have considered it for my youngest a few more!
"There is nothing lower than the human race - except the French." (Mark Twain)
The gene pool needs chlorine.