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what is appropriate to do?

shootuadealshootuadeal Member Posts: 5,300 ✭✭✭✭
edited November 2008 in General Discussion
2 months ago i bought a shotgun from a guy, it was his late fathers. he sold it to me because he said he never used it. after a couple of weeks i sold it in the store, end of story right. no, now i get a call from the sister of the guy who sold asking if i still had it in the store, i told her no, she is mad at her brother for selling it and asked if i could ask the guy who bought it if he would sell it to her for what he paid plus a little more to get it back in the family. the guy i sold it to lives two hours away and as far as i know doesnt frequent the store much(i didnt reconize the name). i believe i have his phone number but dont know if it is appropriate to call him up to ask. i think i will, i am just worried he might not take it the right way.

what would you do?

Comments

  • n/an/a Member Posts: 168,427
    edited November -1
    Explain it to him just as you have here....He can only say no or yes....

    Tell him the family contacted you etc ...he should understand and if he wants to sell it then fine, he has made some money...if not, well the family is out of luck..

    Family squabbles are touchy things, and tough to be caught in the middle....
  • Marc1301Marc1301 Member Posts: 31,895 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by BlackRoses
    Explain it to him just as you have here....He can only say no or yes....

    Tell him the family contacted you etc ...he should understand and if he wants to sell it then fine, he has made some money...if not, well the family is out of luck..

    Family squabbles are touchy things, and tough to be caught in the middle....

    +1
    About all you can do except tell her to pound sand.
    Personally I would make the call, and explain it has nothing to do with you.

    He should understand.
    "Beam me up Scotty, there's no intelligent life down here." - William Shatner
  • HighballHighball Member Posts: 15,755
    edited November -1
    Looks like another piece of snit selling off family heirlooms.

    I would attempt to get the shotgun back where it belongs....you are caught in the middle, here..
  • aramisviaramisvi Member Posts: 4,589
    edited November -1
    personally sir,

    i would ask the sister if i could giver her contact number to the guy...if she says yes, i'd call him and tell him that the daughter of the original owner would like to make him an offer to buy it back. if he asks about $$$ he's interested or if he asks for a contact number...but don't volunteer the info unless he's expressed some type of interest. this could do 2 things for you...give you a rep as a caring store owner (they see that if they were in the same situation ie: stolen guns or something... that you would aid them as well) and could garner you 2 good customers. i would look around your shop and see if you could find a similar gun to offer up in trade to make it worth his while and selling the gun back to the daughter for the same price. you'll be out nothing and all parties would be happy.
  • br549br549 Member Posts: 1,024
    edited November -1
    no matter what happens someone will be pissed at you. i hate to be stuck in the middle of things like that.
  • n/an/a Member Posts: 168,427
    edited November -1
    I really think the son should have asked the rest of the family if they wanted to "buy" it or just plain give it to them since he didnt want it...
  • nunnnunn Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 36,085 ******
    edited November -1
    A friend of mine bought a Colt .32 auto here on Gunbroker. He took it apart to clean it, and found some engraving under the grips. It was a name, a date, and a military unit. This gun happened to have belonged to a man from this area, long deceased, and my friend was able to locate this man's decendants and give them the gun. I thought that was a classy thing to do.
  • pickenuppickenup Member Posts: 22,844 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    A friend of mine, who used to be a gunsmith, closed his shop years ago. Before he went out of business he finished up all the repairs and contacted everyone to get their firearms. Except one guy.

    That customer had moved, and left no forwarding information. My friend tried every way he could think of to find the customer, but came up empty handed.

    A few years later, he sold all his equipment, tools, parts, inventory, etc. to another gentleman that lived out of state.

    A decade goes by.

    The original customer, looking through old papers finds my friends old business card, looks up his name in the phone book, and gets in contact with my friend, asking if he still has his rifle.

    Keep in mind, now it has been over 15 years, since the customer first brought his rifle into the shop. My friend calls the guy he sold his equipment to, and tells him the story. Amazingly enough, he still had the rifle, and was willing to return it to the original owner.

    I didn't ask if any $$$ changed hands. I felt the story was good enough, it stood on it's own merit, and didn't want to know.
  • dongizmodongizmo Member Posts: 14,477 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    When I was A teenager, 14 or so, a group of us from the neighborhood were starting hunting & shooting together, another guy, Marc and I bought identical Mossberg 395k 12ga shotguns.
    On good friday 1978, Marc was killed by a drunk driver.
    About 4 years ago, another one of the guys calls me, says he has something for "me". He shows up and hands me a gun case, I open it and it is Marc's Mossberg, he says I think you son can use this...I had not thought about our "guns" in 30 years. We both cried like babies....
    Don
    The ultimate result of shielding men from the effects of folly, is to fill the world with fools.
  • VinhlongVet71VinhlongVet71 Member Posts: 4,605
    edited November -1
    +2 Tell it like it is,,,or,,,(I don't know if this would be appropriate),,give the sister the mans phone number and let her call
    the man and explain.quote:Originally posted by Marc1301
    quote:Originally posted by BlackRoses
    Explain it to him just as you have here....He can only say no or yes....

    Tell him the family contacted you etc ...he should understand and if he wants to sell it then fine, he has made some money...if not, well the family is out of luck..

    Family squabbles are touchy things, and tough to be caught in the middle....

    +1
    About all you can do except tell her to pound sand.
    Personally I would make the call, and explain it has nothing to do with you.

    He should understand.
  • tomahawktomahawk Member Posts: 11,826
    edited November -1
    http://www.stinkfreecarrington.com/welcometogunbrokers.htm


    can,t talk to you...whats up with this...how is the weather by the way
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