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Is it really a problem?

KodiakkKodiakk Member Posts: 5,582
edited February 2017 in General Discussion
I hear a lot of guys talking about how their women doesn't give them enough loving. Personally I've never had this problem, in fact every woman I've been "personal" with has always been ready to go whenever I am. So that makes me ask that question.... Is that really a problem for a lot of guys?

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  • woodshed87woodshed87 Member Posts: 23,478 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by Kodiakk
    I hear a lot of guys talking about how their women doesn't give them enough loving. Personally I've never had this problem, in fact every woman I've been "personal" with has always been ready to go whenever I am. So that makes me ask that question.... Is that really a problem for a lot of guys?
    "God made man," "Viagra made all men equal."[:o)]
  • 11b6r11b6r Member Posts: 16,584 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    My lady and I have children older than many of the posters here. Hell, we may have grandkids older than some. Yeah, we've been married 3 days longer than dirt. Yeah, we're the senior citizens.

    But it is still nice to be awakened with the smell of fresh coffee, and a voice at your ear that asks "Hey cowboy- you up for a rodeo?"

    And I can still leave her with a big sleepy smile on her face. If you are not getting the opportunity to do likewise, and there is not a health problem....... you're doing something wrong.

    Take those last 4 words how you will. [;)]
  • Chief ShawayChief Shaway Member, Moderator Posts: 6,279 ******
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by 11b6r
    My lady and I have children older than many of the posters here. Hell, we may have grandkids older than some. Yeah, we've been married 3 days longer than dirt. Yeah, we're the senior citizens.

    But it is still nice to be awakened with the smell of fresh coffee, and a voice at your ear that asks "Hey cowboy- you up for a rodeo?"

    And I can still leave her with a big sleepy smile on her face. If you are not getting the opportunity to do likewise, and there is not a health problem....... you're doing something wrong.

    Take those last 4 words how you will. [;)]


    Yepper.
    If your ear itches and you put your finger in there to scratch it, which feels better?
    Your finger or your ear? [:D]
  • remingtonoaksremingtonoaks Member Posts: 26,245 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Some women have a problem with sex or intimacy altogether. Takes my son's ex-wife or instead, she has never wanted to have any physical contact with him. She had match it's a problem she does not know why she happe or instead, she has never wanted to have any physical contact with him. She had Admitted it's a problem she does not know why she has, so after 18 years my son divorced her because of it and other things too, but according to both of them Ever sense she said I do and by the way they never had any intimate moments before they got marriedexcept the chicken back on the lips, she refused to. Through the divorce I had an opportunity to talk to her parents, and they said that she was molested as a child. I think because of that it has ruined her life as far as having any intimacy with anybody. They adopted two children, and The problem is so bad it makes her skin crawl when they want to hold her hand, digs are her own children were talking about. So yes some women not only do not like to be intimate, but it actually makes their skin crawl to be intimate
  • Rack OpsRack Ops Member Posts: 18,596 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Going through a divorce right now.

    Lack of intimacy was definitely an issue.
  • fordsixfordsix Member Posts: 8,554 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    never had a problem ..show them the 40.00 and were good to go[:I]
  • Don McManusDon McManus Member Posts: 23,681 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Never had a problem until I raised my standards and got married.
    Freedom and a submissive populace cannot co-exist.

    Brad Steele
  • jimdeerejimdeere Member, Moderator Posts: 26,234 ******
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by fordsix
    never had a problem ..show them the 40.00 and were good to go[:I]

    Yep, and later the try to give my money back.[:I]
  • OakieOakie Member Posts: 40,522 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Least of our problems. You will laugh at this one. We are in our early 50's and our son said to us one night, " I can't believe people your age are still having sex, that is gross". You can at least wait until I am not home. He is 23. I said to him, hell, your grandparents are still having sex and they are in their mid 70's. I thought he was going to throw up[:D] We old, not dead. He really gets mad when I look at women walking down the street. He will say, aren't you too old for that.??? What does he think, it falls off once you hit 30 or something[:D]
  • LesWVaLesWVa Member Posts: 10,490 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by woodshed87
    quote:Originally posted by Kodiakk
    I hear a lot of guys talking about how their women doesn't give them enough loving. Personally I've never had this problem, in fact every woman I've been "personal" with has always been ready to go whenever I am. So that makes me ask that question.... Is that really a problem for a lot of guys?
    "God made man," "Viagra made all men equal."[:o)]


    That's a lie.

    Took those things twice a day for a month. Still come up 1/64" short to John Holmes.
  • shilowarshilowar Member Posts: 38,811 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    If my wife didn't atleast still cook I'd have hit the road a while ago.
  • john carrjohn carr Member Posts: 1,717 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    shortly before I got married I knew this guy who was a school teacher. He wasn't exactly a friend, just some guy I could rely on as a drinking buddy, we sometimes didn't stick to the genteel areas of the city, and he was a coach, kept himself in pretty good shape. One time he came down to see me and told me that his wife had said she had joined the Jehovah's Witness church. The minister had taken her aside and told her, among other things, that she was to have sexual relations only one time a year, and that it was for the purpose of having children. He got a lawyer and the court granted him the divorce.
  • jimdeerejimdeere Member, Moderator Posts: 26,234 ******
    edited November -1
    I ran into an old friend a while back.
    Asked him how things were going.
    "Not too good. My old lady has cut me down to 3 times a week" he said.
    "Gee, that's too bad" I replied.
    "Oh, it's not so bad." he said.
    "She cut two other fellas plumb out."
  • telohftelohf Member Posts: 912 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Its been my experience after 20+ years of marriage and now in the process of divorce that women will put out until they get married. They will also cook and clean and do a lot of other things until that time.

    Marriage changes it all. Whatever it is that you liked about her before you got married will go away after you get married. Guaranteed!!

    so for me its simple...If you like to have sex with a woman...DO NOT marry her!!!
  • discusdaddiscusdad Member Posts: 11,427 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    its best to remember the warnings science has given us about sex and marriage. certain foods are well known to kill libido, the food identified as being the worst for sex drive is...........WEDDING CAKE
  • shilowarshilowar Member Posts: 38,811 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by telohf
    Its been my experience after 20+ years of marriage and now in the process of divorce that women will put out until they get married. They will also cook and clean and do a lot of other things until that time.

    Marriage changes it all. Whatever it is that you liked about her before you got married will go away after you get married. Guaranteed!!

    so for me its simple...If you like to have sex with a woman...DO NOT marry her!!!


    Every preceding generation of men tries to warn the upcoming generation of men, and with consistency the up and coming ignores the preceding! It is quite predictable, you can tell a woman that is recently divorced because she drops a bunch of weight, and suddenly becomes flirtatious...etc...once she snags another man out comes the sweat pants, she packs on 30 lbs and no longer is interested in sex.


    The funny part is that women also repeat the same unsuccessful, unhappy cycle. they fall for a man, not for what he is, but she thinks she can make him, not understanding that we change very little. Of the games mother nature plays.
  • select-fireselect-fire Member Posts: 69,491 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    40 yrs last Sept. No complaints whatsoever.
  • armilitearmilite Member Posts: 35,490 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by telohf
    Its been my experience after 20+ years of marriage and now in the process of divorce that women will put out until they get married. They will also cook and clean and do a lot of other things until that time.

    Marriage changes it all. Whatever it is that you liked about her before you got married will go away after you get married. Guaranteed!!

    so for me its simple...If you like to have sex with a woman...DO NOT marry her!!!



    [:D][:D][:D]
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