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Baby Weaning Troubles: Advice?

SkyWatcherSkyWatcher Member Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited February 2004 in General Discussion
Okay, I know some of you will crack a smile when you read this question, but I need some info/input, and one of you all ought to have a good tip - even if you are a bunch of old gun nuts. And for those who say we shouldn't stray too far from gun related topics - stick it in your ear.

Okay: Does anyone know of any good home remedies for treating breast engorgement that a mother experiences while weaning her child?

This is apparentely EXTREMELY painful - according to my wife. I just called home and she says she can't even move it hurts so bad - this has been going on for a couple of days now, getting worse and worse. She called the Dr. and all he said was warm shower, heat pad, try expressing a little milk. Heat apparently doesn't help much, and expressing milk will only encourage further milk production.

So help me with some advice. My girls are suffering and the "medical establishment" has precious little help to offer.

And no wise cracks about my girls either...or else.

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  • dongizmodongizmo Member Posts: 14,477 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Doc should be able to prescribe something to dry her up.
    My wife did not beast feed, and the doc gave her something.
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  • SkyWatcherSkyWatcher Member Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Can't do the drugs route because she is pregnant with our second. Doc did say she could take tylenol, but from the way she seems to be hurting (and she in not one to complain of pain - ever) I don't think it'll do a whole lot.

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  • n/an/a Member Posts: 168,427
    edited November -1
    What about a Breast Pump to get rid of all the excess?????

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  • SkyWatcherSkyWatcher Member Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Hey Classic, apparently that will only stimulate more milk production. Normally the body will reabsorb the milk withing 1-2 days, but since she is pregnant and trying to wean, he body is kind of confused.

    By the way fellas: A WOMAN CAN GET PREGNANT WHILE BREASTFEEDING.

    Just thought you might like to know so you're not surprised some day.

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  • crosshaircrosshair Member Posts: 635 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I would say that if that doctor cannot help her in any way explain to him or her about the severe pain your wife is going thru and ask if he or she knows of a specialist that your wife could see about this problem. I do know one thing, If us men were the ones to give birth to kids and have to go thru what your wife is going thru there would not be any kids in my family!

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  • n/an/a Member Posts: 168,427
    edited November -1
    And being pregnant again, also stimulates the production, thats why a Breast pump would at least give temporary relief for that over full feeling..

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  • susiesusie Member Posts: 7,469 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    From a female perspective. Since dry up drugs are out of the question, try this....get a VERY large ace bandage, the type you would wrap around busted ribs and wrap the breasts with this. Do it as tight as she can stand, followed with tylenol. The wrap should keep them from filling to capacity and the tylenol should help with the pain until the wrap kicks in brings everything more within reason. Also, for right now, DO sleep with a bra on if she wants to remove the wrap at night. I would say for the first few days though that sleeping with the wrap would be the way to go.

    Hope this helps.

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  • dcon12dcon12 Member Posts: 32,003 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    By the way fellas: A WOMAN CAN GET PREGNANT WHILE BREASTFEEDING.

    But why would you want to get her pregnant when she is breastfeeding?[:D][}:)][:D]

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  • SkyWatcherSkyWatcher Member Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    DCon - I oughta slap you...[:0]

    Doesn't help that that is almost the exact same thing my dad said when I told him we were having another baby...but nobody gets to slap my pa.

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  • mateomasfeomateomasfeo Member Posts: 27,143
    edited November -1
    I would suggest a breast message at least three times a day...

    If she is resistant to the breast massage, tie her to the radiator till she deflates...

    Worked for me. [:D]



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  • SkyWatcherSkyWatcher Member Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Mateo - it's intimidating...I married a woman much less well endowed, then along comes this baby and POW! Now I'm like, what the heck am I supposed to do. So far, I've taken the Dian Fossey approach and just watched them and taken notes - mabey someday I'll learn more about their behavior and try to join the social group, but for now, I'll just continue to learn. I can be patient 'cause I know there ain't no poachers on my mountain.[8D]

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  • mateomasfeomateomasfeo Member Posts: 27,143
    edited November -1
    SKYWATCHER

    My wife got a breast REDUCTION! Them mamma'a was jammin! Could use em for pillows.

    Now, through the miracle of modern medicine...they rule.

    Anyway, since I have all this breast experience, this is the only advise I can give (except for tying them to the radiator, that's still good), is -

    BE THE BREAST!!!

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  • SwwboSwwbo Member Posts: 1,255 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Buy a head of cabbage... have her take the whole cabbage leaves and place into her bra.. It works.. the cool cabbage feels good and some now the cabbage will dry up the breast.. This is an old time remedy..

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  • Queen of SwordsQueen of Swords Member Posts: 14,355
    edited November -1
    I knowit sounds odd, but.....boil some cabbage leaves for about a half an hour, then have the lactating mom make a warm compress out of them for her breasts. I breastfed 2 babies, and there is a lot to be said for the cures from the 'old country'.

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  • RosieRosie Member Posts: 14,525 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    You should be very proud of her for breast feeding and let her know it. It shows she is thinking of the baby and not her self. Sorry I can't be of any help but it sounds as if the pain gets too bad the pump is the only way to get a little relief.
  • cowdoccowdoc Member Posts: 5,847 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Hey skywatcher, this is cowdoc's wife. I breastfed three babies. How old is the one that she is trying to wean? If the first one is still wanting to nurse just tell her to try taking away one feeding per few days. That way her body will slowly stop production of the milk. When you stop cold turkey thats when you run into engorgement. When I ran into problems with engorgement or plugged ducts I (and this may sound kind of funny) filled a bath with WARM waster and got on knees and rested on forearms and just soaked them. If first baby has already stopped completely I would just say warm soaks alternated with cold and tylenol. The tylenol is safe for baby to be.

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  • Queen of SwordsQueen of Swords Member Posts: 14,355
    edited November -1
    Also good advice... you do not want to quit breastfgeeding "cold turkey". /////////////I agree with reducing feedings by one a day as breast have the wonderful ability to only produce milk based on the baby's needs.quote:Originally posted by cowdoc
    Hey skywatcher, this is cowdoc's wife. I breastfed three babies. How old is the one that she is trying to wean? If the first one is still wanting to nurse just tell her to try taking away one feeding per few days. That way her body will slowly stop production of the milk. When you stop cold turkey thats when you run into engorgement. When I ran into problems with engorgement or plugged ducts I (and this may sound kind of funny) filled a bath with WARM waster and got on knees and rested on forearms and just soaked them. If first baby has already stopped completely I would just say warm soaks alternated with cold and tylenol. The tylenol is safe for baby to be.

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  • maboogermabooger Member Posts: 685 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I agree with the tight wrap - I use to alternate warm then cold & cut back on my liquid intake ,,,, she'd have to be careful with the last though.
    I know you made me shiver again thinking back ,,, this problem hurt worse than having them !!!!![:D]

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  • concealedG36concealedG36 Member Posts: 3,566 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    No offense intended, SkyWatcher, but this is the weirdest topic I have ever seen on this board and I've been here almost 3 years. [:0]

    I hope your wife feels better soon.

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  • bluegoose11bluegoose11 Member Posts: 1,011 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    when my wife had our son oversea she had engorgement and the doc had her do just as Susie said but wrap a towell around her first it sounds like you are not there but if you are or someone else can do it pull the towel as tight as you or they can before they wrap the ace wrap it lasted about 3 or 4 days before she got better also tell her to keep wraped as much as possible and good luck to her I know what she is going through from my wife's experence
  • gskyhawkgskyhawk Member Posts: 4,773
    edited November -1
    Mrs. Skyhawk here Very interesting topic I feel so bad for your wife from experience I feel her pain. One thing you need to worry about is mastitice (spelling ?) Very painful very sick high fever, the milk basically curdles in the breast and no it doesn't just happen in cows. They really don't give drugs for drying women up anymore to many side effects. The tight wrap makes sense. What I was told to do and it worked was drink anything with caffiene this slows down the production of milk and buy a bag of frozen peas for each breast the cold feels great and relieves the pain. You can throw them back in the freezer and use them over and over until she's feeling better. Do not pump this just makes more milk making more pressure. well I hope this helps keep us posted on her comfort. I know being pregnant she won't want to drink to much caffiene and i'm sure you won't want her bouncing off the walls. Good Luck [:)]
  • SkyWatcherSkyWatcher Member Posts: 1,571 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Well, I just want to say that I appreciate all the advice on this. And yes concealedG36 this may be an odd topic, but I sure got some good advice. The funny thing is, I knew that some folks here would know how and want to help.

    As far as an update, I last checked the board before I left work on Friday, so left before I could get the "cabbage" advice. We tried everything else though (except ace bandages). The problem seems to have leveled off over the weekend, and my wife hasn't taken any tylenol since yesterday (Sunday). The paid isn't constant now, and only becomes really bad when our daughter accidentally hits them, which happens often enough.

    We did do the gradual weaning thing, but still had this problem. We stepped down one feeding every couple of days till we were at one feeding per day right before bed. We did this all within about a two week period, so we may have done it too fast. The one we're weaning is one-year-old, and she has been extra "needy" since she stopped nursing. Seems she cries a lot of the time now when she falls (which happens all the time now that she's walking), when it wouldn't have bothered her before - guess she'll just have to learn.

    Thank you all again for your advice - it was truly helpful. I really do appreciate this board and the members, and their very helpful spouses.

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