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Why can't people say what they mean?

WagionWagion Member Posts: 2,464 ✭✭✭✭✭
edited February 2004 in General Discussion
Why can't people tell you straight out what they are mad about? (and YES by people I mean women) No wonder they get mad all the time they expect us to guess one that they are mad and two to know why or what they think we did?

If force ain't work'n... Your not use'n nough of it.
I know the spelling is bad but guess what I DON'T CARE

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  • crims40crims40 Member Posts: 1,107 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I sense a story behind all this...[:D][}:)][;)]
  • FrancFFrancF Member Posts: 35,278 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Thats one problem I DON'T have with my wife- She has no problem telling me there is a problem. If you know what I mean [;)]

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  • NOSLEEPNOSLEEP Member Posts: 4,526
    edited November -1
    Ya, spit it out.[}:)]

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  • SwwboSwwbo Member Posts: 1,255 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I'll go straight to the person.. Have no problem with it.
  • 3gunner3gunner Member Posts: 489 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    When she's gotcha guessing that means she got your full attention. Which is quite possibly the base line of the problem anyway.
  • WagionWagion Member Posts: 2,464 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    O there is a story but then what fun would it be to tell it all at once?


    If force ain't work'n... Your not use'n nough of it.
    I know the spelling is bad but guess what I DON'T CARE
  • p3skykingp3skyking Member Posts: 23,916 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Women are taught from an early age to beat around the bush (pardon the pun) and not be honest. They have been doing it so long, THEY don't even know what is bothering them.

    They never want to hurt feelings, but in the end, have ruined your meal, ruined your evening, or runined your weekend. All because you didn't notice the cute little sunflower towels in the bathroom.

    Wife just came in, read what I was writing and now my evening's ruined![:0]
  • nunnnunn Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 36,062 ******
    edited November -1
    In my experience, which has been considerable and EXPENSIVE, a woman who means what she says and says what she means is a RARE animal indeed. I don't understand it; I just accept it.

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  • Rebel_JamesRebel_James Member Posts: 4,746
    edited November -1
    Whatever you do, don't guess at what she's mad about!

    You'll probably be wrong, and give her something ELSE to be mad about!



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  • dcon12dcon12 Member Posts: 32,003 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    There are some things a sne man will not touch, however that said, women don't have a clue so they take it out on the man. Now, nuff said!

    "Right is Right, even is everyone is against it, and wrong is wrong, even if everyone is for it"
  • timbromantimbroman Member Posts: 1,164
    edited November -1
    Rebel James - You must have read my mind. That is an absolute not-to-do and ranks right there with never guess at the lady's weight, age, dress size, when the baby is due, etc.
  • allen griggsallen griggs Member Posts: 35,509 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Most women could not define the word "lie" if you gave them an hour, and a Webster's dictionary.
  • n/an/a Member Posts: 168,427
    edited November -1
    Women dont say what they mean???????/// BULL TWEET....

    Women say exactly what they mean...men just dont listen....and as for men???/...They always say straight out what they mean...oh yea and dead ducks fly backwards too...Examples...


    "I can't find it."
    MEANS: It didn't fall into my outstretched hands, so I am completely
    clueless.

    "That's women's work."
    MEANS: It's difficult, dirty and thankless.

    "Will you marry me?"
    MEANS: Both of my roommates have moved out, I can't find the washer
    and there's no peanut butter left.

    "It's a guy thing."
    MEANS: There's no rational thought pattern connected with it, and you
    have no chance at all of making it logical.

    "Can I help with dinner?"
    MEANS: Why isn't it already on the table?

    "It would take too long to explain."
    MEANS: I have no idea how it works.

    "I'm getting more exercise lately."
    MEANS: The batteries in the remote are dead.

    "We're going to be late."
    MEANS: I have a legitimate reason for driving like a maniac.

    "Take a break, honey, you're working too hard."
    MEANS: I can't hear the game over the vacuum cleaner.

    "That's interesting dear."
    MEANS: Are you still talking?

    "Honey, we don't need material things to prove our love."
    MEANS: I forgot our anniversary again.

    "It's really a good movie."
    MEANS: It's got guns, knives, fast cars and naked women.

    "You know how bad my memory is."
    MEANS: I remember the words to the theme song of F-Troop, the
    address of the first girl I kissed, and the vehicle identification number
    of every car I've ever owned, but I forgot your birthday.

    "Oh, don't fuss, I just cut myself, it's no big deal."
    MEANS: I have actually severed a limb, but will bleed to death! before I
    admit I'm hurt.

    "She's one of those rabid feminists."
    MEANS: She refused to make my coffee.

    "I heard you."
    MEANS: I haven't the foggiest clue what you just said and hope I can
    fake it well enough, so you don't spend the next three days yelling at me.

    "You really look terrific in that outfit!"
    MEANS: Please don't try on one more outfit, I'm starving.

    "I brought you a present."
    MEANS: It was free ice scraper night at the ball game.

    "I missed you."
    MEANS: I can't find my sock drawer, the kids are hungry and we're out
    of toilet paper.

    "I'm not lost, I know exactly where we are."
    MEANS: No one will ever see us alive again.

    "This relationship is getting too serious."
    MEANS: I like you almost as much as I like my truck.

    "I don't need to read the instructions."
    MEANS: I am perfectly capable of screwing it up without printed help.

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  • select-fireselect-fire Member Posts: 69,446 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Black Roses..LMAO your right !!
  • outdoortexasoutdoortexas Member Posts: 4,780
    edited November -1
    Great list BR!
    Didn't know that ol'timer you put up with was that bad! [;)]
  • offerorofferor Member Posts: 8,625 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Even psychologists will report that women prefer not to be confrontational, and what we consider directness they sometimes fear is confrontational. This is true even when communication can take place without shouting and anger. I do think that the ability to be direct is learned.

    Like nunn and some others, I've lived long enough now to value directness highly, since the price of leaving things unsaid can be high. If I can contribute anything in my own life, I can at least "tell my truth" and let the chips fall. I can no longer bear to spend a lot of time around people who are so "courteous" that they never get around to telling you what bothers them. Singles probably get a lot more of this kind of treatment than marrieds do, though. As somebody said on TV this week, the difference between being single and being married is being lonely or being annoyed.

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  • idsman75idsman75 Member Posts: 13,398 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Guys have to be jerks. Nice guys finish last and women always go back to the P-rick. Most have low self esteem and can't handle the possibility of being dumped by a decent gentleman. It's easier to deal with when they get dumped by a piece of hoo-hoo.
  • FreudianSlippersFreudianSlippers Member Posts: 1,302 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by Wagion
    Why can't people tell you straight out what they are mad about? (and YES by people I mean women) No wonder they get mad all the time they expect us to guess one that they are mad and two to know why or what they think we did?
    It must be nice to live in such a simplified world where you can make gross generalizations about entire groups of people.

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  • NickCWinterNickCWinter Member Posts: 2,927
    edited November -1
    "Women are irrational creatures and that's the end of it." Santayana
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