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Encouraging words

BOBBYWINSBOBBYWINS Member Posts: 7,810
edited August 2003 in General Discussion
On a good day,I can BS with the best of'em,
but I have never been good at finding the words
to encourage someone who is having a hard time with
something(death,illness,lost love,etc.)
Now to the point.I have a very dear freind who's son
has been in Iraq for about 4 months now.He started out
in Bagdad and for the last couple of months in Tikrit.
So far so good.He's a "tank mechanic" out of Fort Hood.
His name is Arturo Yanez.She gets a call from him
whenever he can to let her know he's ok,but yesterday
was different.He's killed 4 men since the last call,
apparently his first.He's no longer the son she knew.
He was expecting to be coming home sometimes around
November,but now he says it may be April.
My freind has seven children,four of which have been
or currently in the military.All four have seen action
somewhere.She had three in Kuwait at the same time.
She is convinced that her luck is running out and she
really needs a freind (like me)for encouragment,but I can't
find the words when the time comes.
Almost forgot,her daughter was sent to Korea a month or so ago,
so there's two to worry about now.
Arturo tells her that he sleeps with his finger on the trigger
(if he sleeps).Their fired upon on a daily basis.
Help me find the words,my freinds.Thank you,BW


IT'S WHAT PEOPLE KNOW ABOUT THEMSELVES THAT MAKES THEM AFRAID.

Comments

  • 4GodandCountry4GodandCountry Member Posts: 3,968
    edited November -1
    I don't know what to say to you, but if her son really cared about his mothers peace of mind he would never have told her things to worry her. I guess the best thing you could do is just be there for her and listen. Maybe take her and do things to get her mind off her worries. Where is the guys father? He needs to tell him to knock off the war stories when hes talking to his mom, things like that should be kept between men and leave the womans mind at ease.

    "Neca eos omnes. Deus suos agnoscet."
  • robsgunsrobsguns Member Posts: 4,581 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Cant help you with the words for her, but I've got some for him, none of them nice, for telling her any of these things, whether they are true or not, he's irresponsible and unproffessional for ever saying those things to her. IMO.

    You DO NOT say those things to your friends/family, etc. over the phone, in a letter, etc., or anyone else. The time for that is after you return, if at all.

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    SSgt Ryan E. Roberts, USMC
  • DancesWithSheepDancesWithSheep Member Posts: 12,938 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Don't know what encouragement you can provide, but when your friend's son gets home, kick his * for what he needlessly put his mother through.
  • bigdaddyjuniorbigdaddyjunior Member Posts: 11,233
    edited November -1
    Dumb kid.

    Big Daddy my heros have always been cowboys,they still are it seems
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