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Am I a bad person?

competentonecompetentone Member Posts: 4,698 ✭✭✭
edited February 2013 in General Discussion
I've heard a number of the parents whose children died in the Sandy Hook shooting who are now espousing extreme left political views while calling for the destruction of the 2nd Amendment.

I'll guess their extreme leftist political philosophy and anti-Second Amendment stance was something they held long before their children were murdered by Lanza, but I still find myself being repulsed by their willingness to politicize their children's deaths the way I've seen some of them do.

One would think a grieving parent would tell anyone pushing a political agenda, who wanted their support because of their child's death, to just "Go away!"

I'm really appalled at the attempt to apply "collective guilt" to all firearm owners because of the actions of one person.

I find the attempts to suggest that "if-you-don't-support-my-anti-Second-Amendment-political-agenda, you-support-the-murder-of-my-child" position to be a disgustingly irrational (and rude) argument.

I want to forgive them for their irrationality while under the emotional strain they are feeling over the death of their child, but I'm really finding myself losing sympathy for them when I see them "grandstanding" on their children's graves pushing their leftist politics. I find it to be just sickening behavior.

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    competentonecompetentone Member Posts: 4,698 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I am currently watching Equilibrium on my computer. How did it get on my computer? I have no idea, but I suspect the IMESH gnomes have struck again. Does this make me a bad person. [8)]

    Got to say though, it is a good movie. [:D][:p]

    Happiness is a warm gun.
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    DocDoc Member Posts: 13,899 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I am sure most are espousing views they always held. Some may actually think gun control may prevent future violence. Whichever, they are relying on emotion and intelligent people should debate facts not emotion.
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    fordsixfordsix Member Posts: 8,722
    edited November -1
    they must vent it out somewere some how
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    Laredo LeftyLaredo Lefty Member Posts: 13,451 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Since Lanza is dead they don't have anything to focus their grief on but the instrument he used. Its also very likely that anti 2nd folks have contacted them asking for support for their cause since grieving parents make for good photo ops.
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    jeffb1911jeffb1911 Member Posts: 2,111 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    No, you are not a bad person at all. You are simply tired of being blamed for what others have done.

    Why don't we start protesting outside pharmacies for what drug dealers do? Why don't we protest at car dealerships for what drunk drivers do? Because we do not have a political agenda to drive down someone's throat.
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    CrittergitterCrittergitter Member Posts: 2,554 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by Laredo Lefty
    Since Lanza is dead they don't have anything to focus their grief on but the instrument he used. Its also very likely that anti 2nd folks have contacted them asking for support for their cause since grieving parents make for good photo ops.


    Bingo. You beat me on this response. They need a scapegoat for blame. The perpetrator is dead, the only remaining scapegoat is the weapon used.
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    competentonecompetentone Member Posts: 4,698 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by jeffb1911
    No, you are not a bad person at all. You are simply tired of being blamed for what others have done.


    I think you have something there.

    "Collective guilt and punishment" is something that has always annoyed me. In school, I remember having some teachers who would punish the whole class because of the misbehavior of one student. Even as a child (6-7 years old) I remember thinking how unfair it was (and no, I wasn't the one who had misbehaved).
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    old single shotsold single shots Member Posts: 3,594
    edited November -1
    Maybe not the parents but,the anti's,socialists,and media have seen the children from day 1 as a way to get public sympathy to help push their agenda.That is what they care about,not the children.That includes the African Muslim Communist.The fake tears didn't make much of an impression on me.
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    CrittergitterCrittergitter Member Posts: 2,554 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by competentone
    quote:Originally posted by jeffb1911
    No, you are not a bad person at all. You are simply tired of being blamed for what others have done.


    I think you have something there.

    "Collective guilt and punishment" is something that has always annoyed me. In school, I remember having some teachers who would punish the whole class because of the misbehavior of one student. Even as a child (6-7 years old) I remember thinking how unfair it was (and no, I wasn't the one who had misbehaved).





    Collective guilt and punishment is used by communistic, socialistic and Military establishments. The military will punish not only the offender, but the squad, platoon, barracks, regiment and battalion for the "offense" of one soldier improperly polishing his belt buckle or making his bed. There's a reason for it. You may not agree with or understand it, which is fine, but there are valid arguments on both sides.
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    dreherdreher Member Posts: 8,791 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Our culture has changed so much, with so many wanting their 15 minutes of fame, their time before the cameras, their faces on the TV news.

    I have lost a child. The pain is beyond comprehension. I literally do not remember anything but zombie like behavior for over a year after Peter's death. It was like being dead inside. I could never have done a TV interview at Peter's grave site because I could not have stopped crying long enough to be coherent. I cannot understand this behavior. If this is the loonie left in action than they care far more for their political agenda than they care for their children.[V]
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    JunkballerJunkballer Member Posts: 9,183 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I think your a pretty sane and caring person along with most who realizes firearms save many lives, doing more good than harm. I think also they're still in shock and don't know exactly what they're saying, I truly believe that a large percentage of those you see on TV also has a firearm back home for protection, though many of them would deny it now afraid of looking hypocritical.

    "Never do wrong to make a friend----or to keep one".....Robert E. Lee

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    Marc1301Marc1301 Member Posts: 31,897 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by dreher
    Our culture has changed so much, with so many wanting their 15 minutes of fame, their time before the cameras, their faces on the TV news.

    I have lost a child. The pain is beyond comprehension. I literally do not remember anything but zombie like behavior for over a year after Peter's death. It was like being dead inside. I could never have done a TV interview at Peter's grave site because I could not have stopped crying long enough to be coherent. I cannot understand this behavior. If this is the loonie left in action than they care far more for their political agenda than they care for their children.[V]



    +1000

    While I have no children, my response would be just as you described.
    I have never understood these people appearing on camera over a child's death to be honest.

    UNTIL I came to the same conclusion as you did.
    15 minutes of fame, and possible hopes for making some coin.
    Simply disgusting IMHO.[xx(]
    "Beam me up Scotty, there's no intelligent life down here." - William Shatner
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    JustCJustC Member Posts: 16,056 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I am having a pard make me some new bumper stickers

    one I am going to really pizz people off with

    "if you don't support the 2nd ammendment..please practice felatio(sp?) so you don't polute the gene pool"

    I bet I get a lot of funny looks with that one[}:)][:D]
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    wanted manwanted man Member Posts: 3,276
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by competentone
    I've heard a number of the parents whose children died in the Sandy Hook shooting who are now espousing extreme left political views while calling for the destruction of the 2nd Amendment.

    I'll guess their extreme leftist political philosophy and anti-Second Amendment stance was something they held long before their children were murdered by Lanza, but I still find myself being repulsed by their willingness to politicize their children's deaths the way I've seen some of them do.

    One would think a grieving parent would tell anyone pushing a political agenda, who wanted their support because of their child's death, to just "Go away!"

    I'm really appalled at the attempt to apply "collective guilt" to all firearm owners because of the actions of one person.

    I find the attempts to suggest that "if-you-don't-support-my-anti-Second-Amendment-political-agenda, you-support-the-murder-of-my-child" position to be a disgustingly irrational (and rude) argument.

    I want to forgive them for their irrationality while under the emotional strain they are feeling over the death of their child, but I'm really finding myself losing sympathy for them when I see them "grandstanding" on their children's graves pushing their leftist politics. I find it to be just sickening behavior.



    +1
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    wanted manwanted man Member Posts: 3,276
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by JustC
    I am having a pard make me some new bumper stickers

    one I am going to really pizz people off with

    "if you don't support the 2nd ammendment..please practice felatio(sp?) so you don't polute the gene pool"

    I bet I get a lot of funny looks with that one[}:)][:D]

    Justin, have your friend make 2 of those stickers and I'll buy 1 from you...I haven't been allowed access to t he "bumper sticker" maker at my new job yet [:(]
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    Waco WaltzWaco Waltz Member Posts: 10,828 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    If they really believe that the Second Amendment is the problem then they have no one else to blame but themselves for the deaths of their children. They knew where they lived and had plenty of time to move to another country.
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    427cobra289427cobra289 Member Posts: 762 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Parents that spoke at the "gun law" public hearing placed blame for the shootings from lack of civility in society to easy access to guns and things in between. Some parents get it while some only have the tool (gun) to blame as the shooting coward is dead as is the mother.

    Last night the third public hearing was held at Newtown High School. The focus of this hearing was supposed to be school safety but again the focus is guns, nothing to do with school safety. They don't like it when I suggest that we should look at school safety today and we can debate guns tomorrow. These sickos are thrilled beyond belief that this tragedy occurred.
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    JustCJustC Member Posts: 16,056 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by wanted man
    quote:Originally posted by JustC
    I am having a pard make me some new bumper stickers

    one I am going to really pizz people off with

    "if you don't support the 2nd ammendment..please practice felatio(sp?) so you don't polute the gene pool"

    I bet I get a lot of funny looks with that one[}:)][:D]

    Justin, have your friend make 2 of those stickers and I'll buy 1 from you...I haven't been allowed access to t he "bumper sticker" maker at my new job yet [:(]





    will do[;)]
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    NeoBlackdogNeoBlackdog Member Posts: 16,681 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    If these same parents had lost their kids to a lunatic in a car do you think they'd want to ban cars?
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    guntech59guntech59 Member Posts: 23,187 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by dreher
    Our culture has changed so much, with so many wanting their 15 minutes of fame, their time before the cameras, their faces on the TV news.

    I have lost a child. The pain is beyond comprehension. I literally do not remember anything but zombie like behavior for over a year after Peter's death. It was like being dead inside. I could never have done a TV interview at Peter's grave site because I could not have stopped crying long enough to be coherent. I cannot understand this behavior. If this is the loonie left in action than they care far more for their political agenda than they care for their children.[V]




    My condolences.

    I have to believe that I would behave exactle as you described. I doubt I would have talked to anyone outside of immediate family.....and certainly NOT the press.
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    TxsTxs Member Posts: 18,801
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by Crittergitter
    The military will punish not only the offender, but the squad, platoon, barracks, regiment and battalion for the "offense" of one soldier improperly polishing his belt buckle or making his bed. There's a reason for it. You may not agree with or understand it, which is fine, but there are valid arguments on both sides.Collective punishment does work in a military environment, but the problem is that nowadays blanket parties are seriously frowned upon out in the world. [:D]
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    MaxOHMSMaxOHMS Member Posts: 14,715
    edited November -1
    It is almost like Amerika is hearing from.........The Stepford Parents.
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    slumlord44slumlord44 Member Posts: 3,702 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    The light bulb just came on. The stinking public school system taught them well. One kid screws up. Punish them all. Too much trouble to find out who is at fault and punish the bad guy. Was not his faule anyway. Parents, society or who ever else yu want to blame.
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    competentonecompetentone Member Posts: 4,698 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by slumlord44
    The light bulb just came on. The stinking public school system taught them well. One kid screws up. Punish them all. Too much trouble to find out who is at fault and punish the bad guy. Was not his faule anyway. Parents, society or who ever else yu want to blame.


    I guess people, like some of the parents I've heard, "got the lesson" -- I guess some of us missed being indoctrinated and continued to hold to our own judgment recognizing the importance of individual action and responsibility -- and respecting individual rights.
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    GrasshopperGrasshopper Member Posts: 16,759 ✭✭✭✭
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    wanted manwanted man Member Posts: 3,276
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by NeoBlackdog
    If these same parents had lost their kids to a lunatic in a car do you think they'd want to ban cars?


    YES.............some of them [:(]
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    wanted manwanted man Member Posts: 3,276
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by guntech59
    quote:Originally posted by dreher
    Our culture has changed so much, with so many wanting their 15 minutes of fame, their time before the cameras, their faces on the TV news.

    I have lost a child. The pain is beyond comprehension. I literally do not remember anything but zombie like behavior for over a year after Peter's death. It was like being dead inside. I could never have done a TV interview at Peter's grave site because I could not have stopped crying long enough to be coherent. I cannot understand this behavior. If this is the loonie left in action than they care far more for their political agenda than they care for their children.[V]




    My condolences.

    I have to believe that I would behave exactle as you described. I doubt I would have talked to anyone outside of immediate family.....and certainly NOT the press.

    dreher you have my deepest condolences as well...

    Guntech, I agree with you.......

    There is an agenda at work here, there always is, the libtards absolutely WILL NOT let a good crisis go to waste...........
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    DieHard4DieHard4 Member Posts: 2,373 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by competentone
    quote:Originally posted by jeffb1911
    No, you are not a bad person at all. You are simply tired of being blamed for what others have done.


    I think you have something there.

    "Collective guilt and punishment" is something that has always annoyed me. In school, I remember having some teachers who would punish the whole class because of the misbehavior of one student. Even as a child (6-7 years old) I remember thinking how unfair it was (and no, I wasn't the one who had misbehaved).









    That is my issue with it all. One person does wrong and everyone gets punished. One kid in school acts up, the whole class gets punished. A few people fly planes into a building, and the whole country gets punished, and strip searched at every airport. One wackjob shoots some kids in a school, and 300 million citizens get their guns taken away.
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