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Do all seventeen year old have that attitude???

OakieOakie Member Posts: 40,521 ✭✭✭✭
edited February 2011 in General Discussion
Iam about to put my foot up my sons *[:(!][:(!]. getting tired of that I dont give a crap attitude and the know it all BS. Cant even talk to him anymore because I dont know anything and he is soooooo damn perfect. Is it just me or are all seventeens like this??? Sorry for the rant. Just pissed off!!!

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  • guntech59guntech59 Member Posts: 23,188 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I have a 16 year old step-daughter. Seriously...I feel your pain.

    If it weren't for the ultra-serious consequences, she'd be buried in my backyard right now.
  • trapguy2007trapguy2007 Member Posts: 8,959
    edited November -1
    Yes !
    Thank God mine is 33 !
  • Old-ColtsOld-Colts Member Posts: 22,697 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    This, too, shall pass, maybe!!!!

    If you can't feel the music; it's only pink noise!

  • tazzertazzer Member Posts: 16,837
    edited November -1
    got a 15yr old girl soon to be 16 and yes she is getting a little attiitude but nothing daddy can't adjust [}:)]
  • MudderChuckMudderChuck Member Posts: 4,105
    edited November -1
    My son came over for a visit, noticed he actually listened a little before the urge hit him to run his mouth. Things are improving though, he managed to keep his mouth shut and listen, at least for a little while, until the urge got to strong to take charge. He said the reason he runs his mouth so much is he doesn't want me to think he is an idiot. I don't know exactly how to tell him that if he wants to appear intelligent, he should just shut up and listen, instead of trying to turn everything into a competition.
    He borrowed the Jeep, when he got back, he complained about how hard it was to start. The old Jeep gets quirky when it gets really cold. I tried to tell him how to get it started the easy way, he kept interrupting. I even told him how to do a fix that would last and likely fix that problem for months at least. What would have been really amazing is if he went out into the driveway and actually fixed something instead of complaining.
    IMO what much of the problem is, is that kids are generally really self centered, they are the center of their universe. One reason team sports are good for kids, they get some experience in team effort.
  • RtWngExtrmstRtWngExtrmst Member Posts: 7,456
    edited November -1
    Mark Twain said it best: "When I was 21, my dad was the dumbest SOB on the face of the earth!..It was amazing how he learned by the time I was 30".
  • footlongfootlong Member Posts: 8,009
    edited November -1
    0AKIE--l was 36 before l found out my DAD was smarter than me[8D]
  • FEENIXFEENIX Member Posts: 10,559 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    My wife and I never gave our sons (now 22 and 19) that opportunity.
  • guntech59guntech59 Member Posts: 23,188 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by footlong
    0AKIE--l was 36 before l found out my DAD was smarter than me[8D]


    Slow learner?[:D]

    It only took me from 17 to 20 to realize how little I really knew.

    I apologized to my parents the first time I came home on leave from the Army.
  • fishkiller41fishkiller41 Member Posts: 50,608
    edited November -1
    I believe so.Just ask LF.[:0]
  • guntech59guntech59 Member Posts: 23,188 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by dano
    Only thing worse than a son or daughter with an attitude.....is a STEP-Son or STEP-daughter.

    In most states, it's still illegal to bury them while still alive. [V]




    See my earlier post!
  • BamavolBamavol Member Posts: 966 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    RtWngExtrmst got it right. Just keep him alive a few more years.
    This too will pass.
  • Horse Plains DrifterHorse Plains Drifter Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 40,166 ***** Forums Admin
    edited November -1
    Oh yeah!!! We got a 15 yo daughter here and are sitting here going 'round and 'round. Homework....grades....the need for a good GPA to get scholarships for college.......the need for a good GPA in order to get a learner's driving permit....and on......and on....and on.....
  • 41 nut41 nut Member Posts: 3,016
    edited November -1
    At that age they all know everything. I remember how dumb my dad was when at 17 I enlisted in the Army. Boy was I ever surprised at how smart he had gotten while I was gone. Have patience your son will come out of the attitude given a little time.
  • MMOMEQ-55MMOMEQ-55 Member Posts: 13,134
    edited November -1
    15yo granddaughter getting this way. They grow out of it about the age of 24. [:D]
  • redhead71redhead71 Member Posts: 2,337 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    my daughter is 14, i think she might not make 15!! good luck i feel your pain but look back when you were 17 and what did your parents do with you?
  • MMOMEQ-55MMOMEQ-55 Member Posts: 13,134
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by redhead71
    my daughter is 14, i think she might not make 15!! good luck i feel your pain but look back when you were 17 and what did your parents do with you?


    Don't know about the rest of you but I was in the Marines 5 days after I turned 17. Now that was a real attitude adjustment.[:D]
  • guntech59guntech59 Member Posts: 23,188 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by MMOMEQ-55
    quote:Originally posted by redhead71
    my daughter is 14, i think she might not make 15!! good luck i feel your pain but look back when you were 17 and what did your parents do with you?


    Don't know about the rest of you but I was in the Marines 5 days after I turned 17. Now that was a real attitude adjustment.[:D]


    US Army at 17 years and 9 months of age. That could be why I realized how smart my parents were earlier than most.

    Basic teaches you alot about doing stuff you REALLY don't want to do.
  • HellquestHellquest Member Posts: 74
    edited November -1
    Mine is 14 and imready to go into the poolbarn and close the door and turn disturbed all the way up on the boom box so mom doesnt hear and beat the living bababooey out of him !!
  • grumpygygrumpygy Member Posts: 48,464 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    [:o)][:o)][:o)]My Son now has the 15 year old[:o)][:o)][:o)]
  • 11b6r11b6r Member Posts: 16,584 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Father's day- 2 years ago. Youngest son and I were sitting on the back deck, enjoying a beer and a beautiful afternoon, watching HIS little boy running around the yard, chasing the cat. Son turned to me, and said "Dad, I want to apologize for being such a BLEEP when I was a teenager."

    Will cherish the moment.

    Dano- keep checking. Laws get updated at times.

    Oakie- grandchildren are God's reward for not killing your teenagers.
  • cbxjeffcbxjeff Member Posts: 17,624 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Take a deep breath Oak. I, years ago, had 2 17 y.o. sons. It took one to just breeze by that stage, the other is 43 and still thinks I'm a dumb a**. Consider this - we are the lucky ones. Daughters that know it all & won't listen can bring you more heartache - literally!
    It's too late for me, save yourself.
  • grumpygygrumpygy Member Posts: 48,464 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by MMOMEQ-55
    quote:Originally posted by redhead71
    my daughter is 14, i think she might not make 15!! good luck i feel your pain but look back when you were 17 and what did your parents do with you?


    Don't know about the rest of you but I was in the Marines 5 days after I turned 17. Now that was a real attitude adjustment.[:D]


    Turned 18 in Boot Camp
  • gumbydamnitgumbydamnit Member Posts: 793 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    17 year old know it all daughter and a 14 year old son. The boy I can beat [;)] but the girl is so damn frustrating [:(!] with the attitude all I can do is go vent by shooting crows, cats or whatever is out there that does not belong on my property[:D] I think back about my older sister and my mother going through the same thing 25 yrs ago, and think maybe I will send her to stay with her aunt, who fortunately raised two boys and they are grown now. My boy knows I might not be the brightest light bulb all the time but will be a long time before he can get the better of his old man. I am 44 and my father it 67 and I'm not sure I could get the better of him yet [;)] The wife is taking it harder that me, I realize that it will pass, I just hope I have enough ammo to get through it for the next5 years [^]
  • AnonymouseAnonymouse Member Posts: 4,050
    edited November -1
    No they aren't. I have 17 and 14 year old sons, both are well mannered and respectful. 17 year old is 14th in his senior class of 477, 100% academic scholarship to college, majoring in Biology. 14 year old has 3 rows of ribbons from his JROTC unit already, his first year in the unit. He is on the drill team and rifle team. Great grades also, he is hoping for West Point. Both of them get raves from their teachers, about how great they are. Kids are reflections of their upbringing.
  • guntech59guntech59 Member Posts: 23,188 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by P228
    No they aren't. I have 17 and 14 year old sons, both are well mannered and respectful. 17 year old is 14th in his senior class of 477, 100% academic scholarship to college, majoring in Biology. 14 year old has 3 rows of ribbons from his JROTC unit already, his first year in the unit. He is on the drill team and rifle team. Great grades also, he is hoping for West Point. Both of them get raves from their teachers, about how great they are. Kids are reflections of their upbringing.


    Trust me, they are the exceptions.

    Congrats to you and them!
  • coltpaxcoltpax Member Posts: 7,516 ✭✭
    edited November -1
  • swampgutswampgut Member Posts: 5,555
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by dano
    Only thing worse than a son or daughter with an attitude.....is a STEP-Son or STEP-daughter.

    In most states, it's still illegal to bury them while still alive. [V]




    I'll tell what's even worse than a STEP kid.....

    A STEP father who can't get any cooch that don't have kids.

    Chances are if not for the vulnerability of the single mother STEP daddy wouldn't have a snowball's chance in hell with her.[;)]
  • swampgutswampgut Member Posts: 5,555
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by P228
    No they aren't. I have 17 and 14 year old sons, both are well mannered and respectful. 17 year old is 14th in his senior class of 477, 100% academic scholarship to college, majoring in Biology. 14 year old has 3 rows of ribbons from his JROTC unit already, his first year in the unit. He is on the drill team and rifle team. Great grades also, he is hoping for West Point. Both of them get raves from their teachers, about how great they are. Kids are reflections of their upbringing.


    That's somewhat true.

    They got their genes from their parents and that matters most.

    Of course, your genes also dictate your parenting skills/love for your kids.

    I completely agree with you in regard to their early childhood upbringing.

    If you want decent teenagers you start when they're born.

    Lots of people are lazy when kids are young and easy. Then when the kids start growing up without the skills the parents should have taught them when they were much younger they get frustrated and lash out.

    Another thing lazy, feckless parents like to overlook is that kids aren't furniture.

    They watch you, they see your lies and they don't forget.

    They know when you manipulate them and lie to them for your own gain.

    They will never unlearn those facts either.

    If you want respect from your kids or anybody else you have to give them a reason.[;)]
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