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Put your own dog down?

utbrowningmanutbrowningman Member Posts: 2,774 ✭✭✭
edited August 2013 in General Discussion
My 13-year old terrier had a tumor on her shoulder which was removed last year. It has come back and is bigger than the first time. Took her down to the farm yesterday to run around and it either split on its own or she caught it on something. There is not a 3/4" cut. Bleeding is non-existent but I don't think this will heal over. She has another small tumor on her backside. She gets around fine but does walk on three occasionally. I know the inevitable is fast approaching. I can't see removing the tumor again as it is within the muscle and has caused problems. The vet wants $85 to out her down. I threw out the possibility of my .22 doing the job. I don't think I can make myself do it and I also can't see me sitting there while the doctor does his job. I'm just a softy, I guess. Damn dust in the air.
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  • Big Sky RedneckBig Sky Redneck Member Posts: 19,752 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    First off, people are funny when it comes to this. Some animals are perfectly fine to shoot or kill with a bow and arrow but they get all weird when it comes down to killing your own dog. You can shoot a dog for many reasons like harassing livestock or attacking another person but to put down your own dog when it's time is looked at as barbaric animal cruelty and if you put down your own dog you are listed as a potentially homicidal maniac by the animal lovers.

    I have no problem doing it, I would rather take the dog for a walk and without the dog seeing the gun sneak a shot in between the ears, no pain and no fear from the dog. Taking a dog to the vet to me is cruel to the dog, poor thing is scared and is put to sleep by a stranger. "The Walk" for a dog is personal and if done properly the dog just goes to sleep without ever knowing something was up.

    If you do so do not post on here that you did, there are serious animal lovers on here that will condemn you for it and it has been proven in the past that some reading this forum are not beyond making phone calls, it's happened before.
  • fishkiller41fishkiller41 Member Posts: 50,608
    edited November -1
    You have a big decision to make.
    One I am happy isn't mine at this time.
    My pop never had the vet out any of the animals we had on the farm,he always did it himself.
    I don't know if I could either..
    Sorry for your situation...[V]
  • HandLoadHandLoad Member Posts: 15,998
    edited November -1
    It was Truly Bittersweet to put Down my Daughter's Labrador in '09, and I still feel bad and sad, and a little Glad all at the same time remembering Her End.

    Sometimes I feel like I murdered her. But she was Blind, and Deaf, and Life was Painful and Unhappy for Her. We actually waited too long, hoping the Daughter would come Home from the USAF to be there at the end.

    But, She had a good Last Day - She Recognized Me and Licked my Hand, Recognized my Wife, and Pawed at her. When the Vet Finally found a vein and administered the Juice, there were a few seconds where Jet Wagged Her Tail Joyously, Something She hadn't done for Months, and then she just Laid Down and Put her Head between her Paws and Went to sleep.

    It is a Really Tough Thing to do, but it is Merciful.
  • yoshmysteryoshmyster Member Posts: 22,059 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Bro of mine once asked me to do the task but had a vet do the work. I figured a 9 would do the job on the rott/chow (more rott looking) blendo when the time came. What did folks do before the vets were paid to be killers?
  • Old-ColtsOld-Colts Member Posts: 22,697 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    When I was in High School we needed to put down our family dog. Back then, early 60's, we couldn't afford to pay a vet to do this, so my mom asked me to do it. A single 22LR to the brain was quick and I have to assume painless. Not an easy task, but it had to be done. Nowadays, I would have taken him to a vet and held him while he faded away!

    If you can't feel the music; it's only pink noise!

  • Sam06Sam06 Member Posts: 21,244 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I have done it for my animals by Vet and by myself. I have never had a vet charge me and one even came out to my house to euthanize a large dog I had for many years.

    You are going to have to do what you feel is best but as the pets "owner" you owe to them to make it as painless as possible.

    Good luck, its never easy.

    My prayers are with you.
    RLTW

  • bullshotbullshot Member Posts: 14,720 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I could never shoot my own dog, I would have that image in my brain for the rest of my life.
    As hard as it is to be present when your dog gets put down, my personal feelings are that I owe my friend at least that much. When we had to put down our 13 year old Aussie "Tess" she went with her head on my lap, it was by far one of the hardest things I've ever had to do but I did it out of respect for the lifetime of loyalty that she gave me.

    Either way, I'm sure sorry for the painful decision that you have to make. My prayers are with you both.
    "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you"
  • bigoutsidebigoutside Member Posts: 19,443
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by Old-Colts
    When I was in High School we needed to put down our family dog. Back then, early 60's, we couldn't afford to pay a vet to do this, so my mom asked me to do it. A single 22LR to the brain was quick and I have to assume painless. Not an easy task, but it had to be done. Nowadays, I would have taken him to a vet and held him while he faded away!


    Held my dobie on our last trip to the vet.
    No viable 'do it yourself' option at hand.
    And I'm not sure I wouldn't have flinched.

    I think the vet route is preferable. I'm guessing the fee includes taking care of everything afterwards?
  • Don McManusDon McManus Member Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I've taken a few to the vet over the years, and I know it is the best way for me.

    Little guy goes to sleep with his best friend right beside him stroking his head. I don't think I could live with myself had I not been there until the very end.
    Freedom and a submissive populace cannot co-exist.

    Brad Steele
  • 4627046270 Member Posts: 12,627
    edited November -1
    My Shiba came down with a huge cancer on his shoulder, the vet removed it, it came back 4 months later, knowing how much I loved him, and knowing he loved me, I had the vet come out to the house, I was holding my buddy when she did it, I just wanted to make sure there was no pain.
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  • mystrymanmystryman Member Posts: 577 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I've done it to the family dog after he got hit real bad by a car. Nobody witnessed it and I couldn't afford the vet bill to have it done. I will live with it forever but he's not suffering anymore.
  • Ditch-RunnerDitch-Runner Member Posts: 25,371 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    agree , my wife would have it no other way

    quote:Originally posted by Don McManus

    I've taken a few to the vet over the years, and I know it is the best way for me.

    Little guy goes to sleep with his best friend right beside him stroking his head. I don't think I could live with myself had I not been there until the very end.
  • Waco WaltzWaco Waltz Member Posts: 10,836 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Is there another vet in town? That price sounds like highway robbery.
  • 4627046270 Member Posts: 12,627
    edited November -1
    Growing up I must have had 24 dogs, my mom was known through the hill as dog killer, she hop in the car, fire it up and move, they never had the chance to move, my dad put down quite a few.
  • Jacob2008Jacob2008 Member Posts: 19,528 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Unfortunately sometimes it has to be done, and you're helping them out of misery. We also properly bury our pets, with grave stones.
  • MMOMEQ-55MMOMEQ-55 Member Posts: 13,134
    edited November -1
    Having been raised on a farm I have had to put down many animals, dogs included. It has always been part of being a farmer. Doesn't make it any easier but on a farm you do what you have to do.

    Good luck with your dog.
  • 1880texan1880texan Member Posts: 978 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I have no problem with it. I've had to do it a few times thru the years. I even had a family member who is LEO have me put one of his dogs down because he couldn't do it. Just walked him out back and .45'd him.
  • 4627046270 Member Posts: 12,627
    edited November -1
    I built small coffins for my best friends, then I have headstones and a nice plant.
  • Don McManusDon McManus Member Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by mystryman
    I've done it to the family dog after he got hit real bad by a car. Nobody witnessed it and I couldn't afford the vet bill to have it done. I will live with it forever but he's not suffering anymore.



    You probably did him a favor by taking care of it relatively quickly and not waiting to take him to the vet.
    Freedom and a submissive populace cannot co-exist.

    Brad Steele
  • big truckerbig trucker Member Posts: 1,167 ✭✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I have done it,for myself and neighbors.If they were in clear agony from a large wound or a car running them over,I don't hesitate.I can't stand to see any animal suffer.Growing up on a farm,it has to be done.

    If it was a sickness that was diagnosed as terminal or untreatable, I would let the vet do it.
  • LaidbackDanLaidbackDan Member Posts: 13,142 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I was raised a city boy (suburbs actually) and when I bought my own acreage in the country I told my wife when the time came that I would put down our beloved German Shepard because that's the way you do it out in the sticks,. When it came time I put her down with a single pistol shot inches from her head, she made eye contact with me just before I pulled the trigger.

    I cried like a baby and shook for hours after, I vowed I would never do anything like that again if I had other options.
  • fishkiller41fishkiller41 Member Posts: 50,608
    edited November -1
    If you do decide to take the matter into your own hands,KNOW that I and I believe most others her,would NEVER hold in any against you in any way...

    Again,it is a rough thing to have to do.
  • HappyNanoqHappyNanoq Member Posts: 12,023
    edited November -1
    I wouldn't be able to tell until I stood in the situation, and could tell what feels right at that time.
  • yoshmysteryoshmyster Member Posts: 22,059 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    1880texan - .45? Damn what were you putting down a dino-Mastiff?

    I thought a 9 was much but I didn't trust a .22LR was enough and I didn't have anything in the middle at the time.
  • spasmcreekspasmcreek Member Posts: 37,717 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I shot my black lab when he got down with arthritis so bad...never been able to think I did it the best way....really bothers me 30 some years later...if rainbow bridge is there I hope he is and we can work it out...damn that's all
  • MobuckMobuck Member Posts: 14,163 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    The only animal/pet we've had the vet put down was younger Son's pet cow. She was down in the barn and it didn't seem prudent to shoot her. Vet is a friend of the family and had been watching the cow go downhill and came straight away to help her out as painlessly as possible. It rained on me all the next day as I dug her grave. Everything else has been by my own hand. In my family, it's a damn poor man who can't take care of his own.
  • savage170savage170 Member Posts: 37,569 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    In my younger days I could. I guess I'm getting softer with age the vet does it now.
  • JamesRKJamesRK Member Posts: 25,670 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    If it needs doing and you can stand it, I won't hold it against you. For me it would be a last resort.
    The road to hell is paved with COMPROMISE.
  • FEENIXFEENIX Member Posts: 10,559 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by fishkiller41
    If you do decide to take the matter into your own hands,KNOW that I and I believe most others her,would NEVER hold in any against you in any way...

    Again,it is a rough thing to have to do.


    Amen to that!
  • discusdaddiscusdad Member Posts: 11,427 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    a wise man has spoken! good job BSRquote:Originally posted by Big Sky Redneck
    First off, people are funny when it comes to this. Some animals are perfectly fine to shoot or kill with a bow and arrow but they get all weird when it comes down to killing your own dog. You can shoot a dog for many reasons like harassing livestock or attacking another person but to put down your own dog when it's time is looked at as barbaric animal cruelty and if you put down your own dog you are listed as a potentially homicidal maniac by the animal lovers.

    I have no problem doing it, I would rather take the dog for a walk and without the dog seeing the gun sneak a shot in between the ears, no pain and no fear from the dog. Taking a dog to the vet to me is cruel to the dog, poor thing is scared and is put to sleep by a stranger. "The Walk" for a dog is personal and if done properly the dog just goes to sleep without ever knowing something was up.

    If you do so do not post on here that you did, there are serious animal lovers on here that will condemn you for it and it has been proven in the past that some reading this forum are not beyond making phone calls, it's happened before.
  • Dads3040Dads3040 Member Posts: 13,552 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I have done both.

    When my first Spaniel got hit by a car while we were out hunting, we were a long way from anywhere, and he was hurting bad. Only thing I could do. Damned dust in my eyes was terrible for hours, but he needed me. That was the longest drive home from a hunt I ever made, and I didn't pull out a scattergun again for several years.

    I have done the trip to the vet and held them while they left me, and I have had the vet come to the house for those who hated to ride in the car.

    UT, I know it is hard, but I think you should be there as the vet does it. None of us should be alone at that time, and our bestest furry friends least of all. They are always there for us when we need them, even if they do not understand why. She needs you one last time.

    No one is going to think less of you for whatever path you choose. I was crying my eyes out as I left the vet's when I took Reggie a few years back. I don't know who saw me, and I don't care.

    I still miss him.
  • woodshed87woodshed87 Member Posts: 23,478 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Ditto Thanks Savagequote:Originally posted by savage170
    In my younger days I could. I guess I'm getting softer with age the vet does it now.
  • Colonel PlinkColonel Plink Member Posts: 16,460
    edited November -1
    I've thought about it just enough to hope I'm within driving distance to a vet when the time comes for my Husky. I suppose if I were to hell and gone in the sticks and she were hurting real bad, I could, but I hope that day never comes.
  • Irish 8802Irish 8802 Member Posts: 1,301 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    My Brittany had cancer,took him to the Vet,he advised putting down...Had to leave,after saying goodbye.Could not be there.He was in twilight state.Humans (some anyway) "via con taco".not so the innocent ones.Signed Softie..
  • mateomasfeomateomasfeo Member Posts: 27,143
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by JamesRK
    If it needs doing and you can stand it, I won't hold it against you. For me it would be a last resort.



    Yep....
  • dcon12dcon12 Member Posts: 32,040 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    As a young boy, my brother and I ran home to tell Papa that our dog had been hit on the highway. Papa loaded us up in his car and rode back to where Jill lay on the side of the road. He got out and looked at her then reached in the back seat and grabbed his hammer and whacked her in the head and then threw her off the side of the rode. I never complained of anything to Papa after that. Don
  • Queen of SwordsQueen of Swords Member Posts: 14,355
    edited November -1
    Been there on a few occasions.

    We had a black lab that went into kidney failure shortly after my divorce. Vet suggested doggie dialysis. I asked the doc how much longer would it extend her life, he said a matter of months, a month without.

    We went with the really good month, and being with her when it wasn't so good anymore.
  • guntech59guntech59 Member Posts: 23,188 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by savage170
    In my younger days I could. I guess I'm getting softer with age the vet does it now.


    I think it is just natural progression.

    I have put down three beloved companions. Each one was harder to do.

    I don't think I have it in me to do it again, unless it is an emergency.
  • bambambambambambam Member Posts: 4,818 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I have had to put down the family dog before & have done it for 2 other people who asked me too.

    I always did it back in the woods at the farm away from everyone. I would leave the animal & get the tractor out of the shed to dig a DEEP hole for the owners so they wouldn't have to see any thing.
  • montanajoemontanajoe Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 60,230 ******
    edited November -1
    It is never easy,,,[:(][:(]
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