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Well, it appears...(update.)
searcher5
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That God is testing me.
*sigh*. When does it ever end? Leaving tomorrow noon, to drive 18 hrs. to Jacksonville, Fla, to load up my daughter. Her roommate beat the hell out of her. I have to drive straight through, with my EX-WIFE!!!!!!!!!! Get there, and then, do my best not to kill him. Honestly, I'm not real sure how this is gong to work out. Frankly, I'm inclined to kill him. Or at least, shove his face out the back of his head. No matter how this plays out, it isn't going to be good. Pray for me.
I feel like I am about a half inch from flipping my lips and coloring Dora the Explorer with dull crayon stubs.
*sigh*. When does it ever end? Leaving tomorrow noon, to drive 18 hrs. to Jacksonville, Fla, to load up my daughter. Her roommate beat the hell out of her. I have to drive straight through, with my EX-WIFE!!!!!!!!!! Get there, and then, do my best not to kill him. Honestly, I'm not real sure how this is gong to work out. Frankly, I'm inclined to kill him. Or at least, shove his face out the back of his head. No matter how this plays out, it isn't going to be good. Pray for me.
I feel like I am about a half inch from flipping my lips and coloring Dora the Explorer with dull crayon stubs.
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the long drive would allow a lot of built up aggression so do you best drive safe and were only hoping the best for you
And fiery auto crashes
Some will die in hot pursuit
While sifting through my ashes
Some will fall in love with life
And drink it from a fountain
That is pouring like an avalanche
Coming down the mountain
Call the cops before you leave.
Exactly, have them there while you do the packing, tell the cops it is to prevent a justifiable homicide.
quote:Originally posted by Mr. Perfect
Call the cops before you leave.
Exactly, have them there while you do the packing, tell the cops it is to prevent a justifiable homicide.
I did it to my daughter's husband about 20yrs ago after he beat her [:(!] She finally divorced him. And he got friendly and nice after that.
Brad Steele
quote:Originally posted by Mr. Perfect
Call the cops before you leave.
Exactly, have them there while you do the packing, tell the cops it is to prevent a justifiable homicide.
I must respectfully advise that calling the police and making what sounds like the threat of murder (whether justified or not) just MIGHT be a really bad idea.
Letting them know you'd like some support as you extricate your daughter from a bad situation sounds like something they would be eager to do.
Just my thoughts. Your mileage may vary.
And best wishes searcher for a successful and bloodless outcome.
......just to help with lifting and carrying.
Try to think with your head instead of your heart. Good luck to you and God bless.
Prayers go with you('s),,
quote:Originally posted by Mk 19
quote:Originally posted by Mr. Perfect
Call the cops before you leave.
Exactly, have them there while you do the packing, tell the cops it is to prevent a justifiable homicide.
I must respectfully advise that calling the police and making what sounds like the threat of murder (whether justified or not) just MIGHT be a really bad idea.
Letting them know you'd like some support as you extricate your daughter from a bad situation sounds like something they would be eager to do.
Just my thoughts. Your mileage may vary.
And best wishes searcher for a successful and bloodless outcome.
My thoughts as well. In any case, you DO need to call the police and advise them of the situation. The poster that suggested they be there when you move her out is right on.
And fiery auto crashes
Some will die in hot pursuit
While sifting through my ashes
Some will fall in love with life
And drink it from a fountain
That is pouring like an avalanche
Coming down the mountain
Sorry to hear about your daughter.
Here's an idea; club him to death...with your ex-wife!
Two birds with one stone...two birds with one stone, mmmmmmm-hmmmmph.
[:D][:D][:D]
I'd be happy to testify! [;)]
Bruises and black eyes heal pretty quickly, but a restraining Order can follow him around for a very long time. In most instances he can kiss his guns goodbye...Maybe for good if the Order become permanent.
+1
He does not give us more to carry than we can handle. Remember that. There is a reason you are one of the level headed thoughtful minds here at GB.
Your daughter will need you to help her, and not make the situation worse, and I know that is what you will do.
Our prayers are with you.
That God is testing me.
Very sorry for your trouble.
I agree about the cops. If he gets out of jail with a wrist slap, THEN pound him. But I doubt seriously he'll come around while you're there.
Good luck, and try being civil with the ex. Remember you're both doing this because you love your daughter.
God bless.
1: to get away from the a-hole that beat her
2:So I wouldn't kill him.
I was loading her stuff, when this van full of Rastafarian looking punks in a van drives by, just giving me the eye. Made the hair stand up on the back of my neck. That seriously does not happen often.They cruise by real slow, while I grab my exes arm, and tell her to get upstairs, not that it was much better. They drive slowly a few feet down, still staring, turn the vehicle around real slow, and start coming back. By this time, I have my hand in my bag, wrapped around a fully loaded,cocked and locked .45 auto. This is seriously one of the few times in my life, that I said to myself, it's coming. The drive by again real slow, just trying to stare me down, all four of them. Drove down a few feet, and stopped. Sat there a minute or two, and drove away. I wasted no time getting them the hell out of there. Whores sitting in the doorways. Man, what a pisshole.
Anyway, I drove 33 hours straight that day(s). Ex wiped out physically in Birmingham, Alabama 10 Sat night,coming back, so we got a room. I had intended to drive straight on back, but it didn't work. Had enough coffee in me that I couldn't sleep when I laid down. So I just sat and rested, while they slept.
Got her back home a little bit ago, she is staying with a friend,not me, as I thought. Likely best, though. She would not file charges. At least I got her out of there. She is also not above lying about her involvement. She does not exercise good judgement, to put it mildly. Some of you here have heard me talk of some of her other escapades. She has seriously put some years in me, but I love her.
It went Ok. Talked to the ex, just jibber-jabber. When she left, she told me, "I don't know how you did that"
I told her, "Hell, baby. I'm an iron man. You never really knew me"
Few other stories, kinda funny for the circumstances, that I may tell later. Fixing to go get another Schlitz, and hit the hay. don'call my cell phone. It will be turned off until late morning.
Dan
Do yourself and sister a favor and ask the sheriff to post a deputy to keep order.
You'll need the guidance... He'll need the protection...
Your daughter will need the comfort of knowing you aren't going to end up in jail.
Take care. Our thoughts are with you and yours. Curse the bastage that was your daughters roomie.
Glad you made it home with your daughter safely.
Some stared
And some laughed
And some pointed
Some took pictures
I was there
With my own
Crippled family
And,
I reckon, they never seen a
Broke hearted cowboy
On the beach
Before now
calling the police during a home invasion.
Neither will help the victim(s) before
the police get there.
I know what you mean about our grown children making bad decisions. [B)]