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Getting a divorce
KAMsales
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After being with the wife for 14yrs, she's proven that a worthless * from a long family history of worthless bitches will never rise above their genetic programming to be anything more than lazy manipulative bitches. My only regret is wasting the past several years thinking that someone would stop being a worthless *, I was dead wrong. Looking forward to losing half my stuff to be rid of a split-tail that hasn't raised a finger to benefit the family but has let me run myself broke and ragged so she can sit her fat * on the couch and watch TV and keep buying more expensive crap
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Good luck, fair winds, and always remember to dig the hole first.
Sometimes it is best to move to the next phase of Life. It sounds like that time for you, is Now.
Good luck, fair winds, and always remember to dig the hole first.
+1 Sorry for the stress you are dealing with. Get it done as quickly as possible.....even if it means giving up some of the mess you want. I know people that have made this sort of thing last years and years....making the lawyers happy and just causing more stress in the end.
Dan
Even if it is the best thing, it will still be painful.
BTDT. [:(]
W.D.
Sometimes it is better to give up a few things, just to move on quicker.
Good luck on this, as these are usually messy.
I wish you well my friend and don't look back, as better days are ahead for you. You deserve better and will find it, trust me, I did. Oakie
You have a great listening crowd here. Quick and as painless as possible. As mentioned you can always acquire new stuff, but good health, mental and physical, is usually a one time deal.
Sometimes it is better to give up a few things, just to move on quicker.
Good luck on this, as these are usually messy.
Best advice and that is spot on. Wish someone gave it to me at the time of my divorce.
Hillbillie, I was in your same shoes over the last year. Donna and I are making a run at it and trying to salvage our marriage. Both have our faults, but were going to make it work if it kills us. Were still in love and have a lot going for us, we just need outside help and are getting it. Not marriage counseling, but some good friends and family are making us see the light. I love her to death as she does me, were just at that stage. Oakie
Yeah but at one time you loved her.
Things change, sounds like you are doing a great thing for yourself KAM!! BTDT too and in a few years you'll be amazed how much happier you are. Cutting lose half your stuff is a wise investment to shed a worthless anchor. Cheers!!
1. You remove any personnel items that you would like to keep from the home and store them with someone you trust under the guise that they are 'gifts'. I have seen everything from family heirlooms to the tools a man had before the marriage, disappear or be sold to split the estate.
2. Cancel any credit cards that she can use to run up bills you will be responsible for, and if possible freeze your credit so she can't get more credit cards.
3. Hire the best divorce attorney you can to give you the best advise to look out for your interests.
Good luck and know that the stress and sadness you might be going through will be replaced by the feeling of relief not having to go home to a person that is making you miserable.
To get over an X take a new to bed! One at least 15 years younger than your soon to be X. Repeat this process as many times as necessary to get her completely out of your head.
Remember, the best revenge is getting on with your life and doing so well she wishes she was still with you!!
A new, younger, really pretty girl friend/wife is always a plus![:D] This can often lead to many sleepless nights by the X.[}:)]
Just finalized mine 4/22 after 15yrs too. Raised her 4 juvenile delinquents, and put her through college to get her Masters, then I got kicked to the curb. Better off now, drama free, and almost enjoying normal stress levels.[:)]
I am sorry you are going through this.
Sorry but Your not the first and You wont be the last on here.Try and keep things civilised learn from it and move on.Good Luck!
+many. Good luck and get a good lawyer.
After being with the wife for 14yrs, she's proven that a worthless * from a long family history of worthless bitches will never rise above their genetic programming to be anything more than lazy manipulative bitches. My only regret is wasting the past several years thinking that someone would stop being a worthless *, I was dead wrong. Looking forward to losing half my stuff to be rid of a split-tail that hasn't raised a finger to benefit the family but has let me run myself broke and ragged so she can sit her fat * on the couch and watch TV and keep buying more expensive crap
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Sorry to hear of it, but it sounds like you've made a decision. Most dangerous words ever, "I just want to be done with this so I'll sign anything." Have your lawyer talk you out of that one. I've heard of people signing some crazy documents because they just want to be done with the divorce. Then they have the next zillion years deal with huge financial problems.
One other thing: Don't even think of re-marrying for the next five years. Don't even allow the thought to enter your mind. Date several women, get laid by all of them, be polite and friendly and a good boyfriend, but if the thought of marriage even enters your mind walk away.
So many guys get divorced and are remarried in four months or six months or eight months simply because the shock of not having a woman in the house is too much to deal with. Unsurprisingly, most of these sudden marriages don't turn out well. So nothing for five years.
One more other thing: If you're not looking to have kids, don't remarry. A woman can live with you, you can be boyfriend / girlfriend, you can eat every meal together. But if you never marry, when things go south you just tell her it's time to leave. Very easy to do. Married, not even close.
Good luck. I hope it works out.
After ending a long term relationship myself and watching my two older brothers and countless other people go through divorces, I would strongly recommend:
1. You remove any personnel items that you would like to keep from the home and store them with someone you trust under the guise that they are 'gifts'. I have seen everything from family heirlooms to the tools a man had before the marriage, disappear or be sold to split the estate.
2. Cancel any credit cards that she can use to run up bills you will be responsible for, and if possible freeze your credit so she can't get more credit cards.
3. Hire the best divorce attorney you can to give you the best advise to look out for your interests.
Good luck and know that the stress and sadness you might be going through will be replaced by the feeling of relief not having to go home to a person that is making you miserable.
Sound Advice Indeed....