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Who Wears Rings

dav1965dav1965 Member Posts: 26,540 ✭✭✭
edited November 2019 in General Discussion
I have a really nice diamond ring wedding band that i wear if we are going someplace special. I have lost 2 wedding rings from where i had cancer and they fell off somewhere.

I have a black onix ring that has dad written in it that i do not wear because i might lose it.

I have a ring that has JS on the top for James Stallings that i just never wear.

Then i have a 3 or 4 caret purple stone that was my grand dads that i never wear because he was not a good man.

There is 1 more but i cant remember what it is off the top of my head.

I do wear nice watches and a necklace but thats about all. I have 4 or 6 necklaces. I can buy jewelry for scrap prices from my daughter.

I buy all the silver and gold i can afford.
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  • Don McManusDon McManus Member Posts: 23,695 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Worn my wedding ring every day for 32+ years.

    It is a cheap 14 K with 3 of the 4 diamond chips left. The band wore through and cracked earlier this year and had a jeweler repair it. They wanted to ?restore? it. Not sure what that means on a $100.00 ring, but I made sure they left the years on it.
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  • spasmcreekspasmcreek Member Posts: 37,717 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    quit wearing rings when a kid on a custom cutting crew showed me what was left of a finger when he bailed off a truck and caught his ring finger on something on the side of the bed...was NOT pretty ........maybe for dress up only
  • US Military GuyUS Military Guy Member Posts: 3,645 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I have been retired for eighteen years, but I still work with my hands. You should see them - cuts, scrapes, bruises, etc.

    I can't imagine what my jewelry would look like based on what my hands look like.

    My wife has lost her wedding ring twice in the last 27 years. We found it once and we replaced it once. I know exactly where my wedding ring is - and it looks just like it did 27 years ago.
  • Ditch-RunnerDitch-Runner Member Posts: 25,374 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    at first after being married I would wear mine on the weekends when wife and I were out . but never while working then just never wore it
    at the time I was working construction , my wife worked for a Pepsi distributor and knew too many route drivers who lost or ripped up there finger pulling down the doors on there trucks , jump up grab the door and leave there finger or a big chunk of skin hanging when the door would stick
    I have enough scars on my hands ( last one table saw got me no fun and 7 stitches ) but still want to take all my fingers with me when I go ;)
  • Horse Plains DrifterHorse Plains Drifter Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 40,233 ***** Forums Admin
    edited November -1
    Nope, none for me. I'm a no jewelry kind of guy.
  • toad67toad67 Member Posts: 13,008 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Always, was part of the vow I took...
  • GrasshopperGrasshopper Member Posts: 17,042 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
  • BobJudyBobJudy Member Posts: 6,671 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Just my wedding band, but I still wear a watch all the time. Not sure why as I have been retired for 10 years. I have worn a watch since I was 9 or 10 and would feel naked without it. Bob
  • kidthatsirishkidthatsirish Member Posts: 6,984 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I wear my wedding ring... tungsten carbide, it has slightly dulled over the past 12 years.
  • kidthatsirishkidthatsirish Member Posts: 6,984 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I wear my wedding ring... tungsten carbide, it has slightly dulled over the past 12 years.
  • pickenuppickenup Member Posts: 22,844 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Nope, none here. No jewelry watches etc.
    When I was young"er" I worked with too many men that had lost "that" finger for one reason or another, because of the ring.
    Told the wife that I didn't need to buy a wedding band, as I would not wear it anyway, was OK with her, she understood.
    Wife has wore out 2 rings, I replaced. I told her the third one is the last one. She only wears it when we go out.
  • mmppresmmppres Member Posts: 3,195 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    i wear my wedding ring on the weekend when there is no chance of losing a finger. I cut an deal with to much scrape metal. Was thinking of a Tattoo one under my real band but with med changes not sure about it. An do not like the new rubber wedding bands Rubber is for some thing else. :mrgreen::mrgreen:
  • bullshotbullshot Member Posts: 14,721 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I wear my wedding band always and an Onyx ring on my right hand .
    "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you"
  • Horse Plains DrifterHorse Plains Drifter Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 40,233 ***** Forums Admin
    edited November -1
    Nose

    :lol::lol::lol: :shock: :shock:
  • Sam06Sam06 Member Posts: 21,244 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I saw a guy get his finger striped to the bone. I wore my wedding band for one day then I hooked it to my watch and there it stayed. Now its on my key ring.

    No rings for me, anywhere ;)


    My nephew got ear rings(he is male) when I saw him I started laughing. His mommy didn't think that was funny.
    RLTW

  • jwb267jwb267 Member Posts: 19,664 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I havn't been able to wear my wedding ring for 25 years due to arthritis. I do however wear a copper ring made from #9 wire I bent around a 5/8" bolt on my left hand
  • Henry0ReillyHenry0Reilly Member Posts: 10,892 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I've been married 18 months now. I hadn't planned to get rings at all. She kind of insisted so I got a plain gold band from Wal-mart and she has a white gold band she got somewhere.

    Mine fits tighter in the summer than in the winter, it actually fell off just yesterday, I wouldn't have noticed if it hadn't made noise when it hit the floor.
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  • RobOzRobOz Member Posts: 9,523 ✭✭✭
    edited November 2019
    Sam06 wrote:
    I saw a guy get his finger striped to the bone. I wore my wedding band for one day then I hooked it to my watch and there it stayed. Now its on my key ring.

    No rings for me, anywhere ;)


    My nephew got ear rings(he is male) when I saw him I started laughing. His mommy didn't think that was funny.

    My senior year in high school I came home with a ring in my ear.

    My dad gave me two options. I could take it out or he would take it out for me. He was not joking. Lol.
  • Sam06Sam06 Member Posts: 21,244 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    RobOz wrote:
    Sam06 wrote:
    I saw a guy get his finger striped to the bone. I wore my wedding band for one day then I hooked it to my watch and there it stayed. Now its on my key ring.

    No rings for me, anywhere ;)


    My nephew got ear rings(he is male) when I saw him I started laughing. His mommy didn't think that was funny.

    My senior year in high school I came home with a ring in my ear.

    My dad gave me two options. I could take it our or he would take it out for me. He was not joking. Lol.

    That would have been what I said too.

    But he is my Nephew and is 19 so I just asked him if he was a Pirate or a fag magnet? MY SIL didn't think that was funny either ;)
    RLTW

  • Bubba Jr.Bubba Jr. Member Posts: 8,303 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I've been wearing my wedding ring for 49 years now. Other than a wrist watch and my high school class ring, that's the only jewelry I've ever had or worn. I did put the class ring away a couple years before we got married.
  • gearheaddadgearheaddad Member Posts: 15,091 ✭✭✭
    edited November 2019
    I'm on my second wedding ring. First one was plain 14K yellow gold simple band that got too sharp along the edges!
    My wife replaced it for our 30th anniversary with a white gold band with some small diamonds in it.
    On my right hand I wear a 14K yellow gold ring with a 1911 2 1/2 dollar gold piece in it.
    My High Schoool principal had one that I loved, and I always thought I'd get one. In 1988 when my son was born, I bought about any coin I could get dated 1988! I saw the 1911 gold piece at the coin shop and bought it.
    In 2010 my wife took the coin had it put in a ring for our 25th anniversary.
    I also have a beautiful white gold ring with 3/4 karat diamond and 2 sapphires that was my Grandpas. I wear it on occasion for special events.
    I also wear a watch daily. I change them up every couple of months. I have a number of watches.
  • BrookwoodBrookwood Member, Moderator Posts: 13,768 ******
    edited November -1
    No rings, no watches, no jewelry worn by me. I do own a few rings, watches, and some old dog tags, and a MENS bracelet my sister gave me for standing up for her at her wedding. They are all in a box or in their original cases that I keep in my gun safe.

    I once was given (by my dad) his gold wedding band that he wore the entire 21 years he was married to my mom. She passed and he remarried some time later. I did wear that ring for a couple years but lost it and have never put on another since. My wife of nearly 47 years has never been into any kind of jewelry. Notta, niltch! She has always been into everything nature related.....horses, goats, DOGS (big time) and ME! 8-) One can't go wrong marrying a farm girl!
  • Smitty500magSmitty500mag Member Posts: 13,623 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Back in the 70s when I was working at TVA we had a clerk that worked on our floor that was missing his ring finger. I used to see him in the hallway sometimes and would hold up my hand and say "give me 4". :D

    He jumped out the back of a truck and his wedding ring hung on the door latch and * it off. The finger that is.
  • Quick&DeadQuick&Dead Member Posts: 1,466 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    I have two rings wear occasionally these days; wedding band with 6 nice diamonds and a custom made ring, 14K solid gold with a nice sized, quality diamond in it.
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  • 4205raymond4205raymond Member Posts: 3,423 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Yep, wedding band for 55 years. After three years in Army got caught in lathe chuck working as machinist. Frank my foreman from Hungary who shoved cocktails in Russian tanks almost tore my head off for wearing it on the job. Lucky I did not lose my finger.

    Many years later helped push a Caddy out of snow, shucked mud and snow from my hand and off the ring went into snow in the woods. Filed a missing report with MP's at the Point. About four months later a Cadet on cross country team at the Point found it and turned it in to MP's. He would not take a reward.

    I can't seem to lose this ring so guess I will keep it on a little longer.
  • ruger41ruger41 Member Posts: 14,665 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Tungsten wedding band since 2008.
  • bearman49709bearman49709 Member Posts: 503
    edited November -1
    I had to stop wearing my wedding ring 10-12 years ago, my hand would swell up at night and that finger hurt a lot.
    Since 2013 I had 7 operations on that hand and probably could wear it again I'm just used to not wearing it now.
    I haven't worn a watch since 1978.
  • bullshotbullshot Member Posts: 14,721 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    So, for all you guys with all the reasons for not wearing your wedding ring ........ how would you feel if your wife stopped wearing hers?
    "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you"
  • pickenuppickenup Member Posts: 22,844 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    bullshot wrote:
    So, for all you guys with all the reasons for not wearing your wedding ring ........ how would you feel if your wife stopped wearing hers?

    She did stop.
    She does not wear hers most of the time, and I am fine with that.
    She puts it on "sometimes" when we go out, when she feels like dressing up.

    You said "not wearing your wedding ring" Guess since I do not have one, and never have, I should not be answering this.
  • US Military GuyUS Military Guy Member Posts: 3,645 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    bullshot wrote:
    So, for all you guys with all the reasons for not wearing your wedding ring ........ how would you feel if your wife stopped wearing hers?

    It would be hypocritical of me to feel any different toward her if she did not wear her ring - assuming she did not wear it for the same reason I don't wear mine.

    In other words, I would not ask her to destroy her jewelry (or hands), if she used (abused?) her hands the way I do mine.

    I have leather gloves. She does not. ;)
  • Sam06Sam06 Member Posts: 21,244 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    bullshot wrote:
    So, for all you guys with all the reasons for not wearing your wedding ring ........ how would you feel if your wife stopped wearing hers?

    Her choice.
    RLTW

  • gearheaddadgearheaddad Member Posts: 15,091 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    bullshot wrote:
    So, for all you guys with all the reasons for not wearing your wedding ring ........ how would you feel if your wife stopped wearing hers?
    It wouldn't bother me at all.
    I have a friend who wears his wedding ring on his right hand.
    If someone asks why he wears it on the wrong hand, he replies "I married the wrong girl"!
  • jimdeerejimdeere Member, Moderator Posts: 26,277 ******
    edited November -1
    I assume both my ex wives stopped wearing theirs.
  • Horse Plains DrifterHorse Plains Drifter Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 40,233 ***** Forums Admin
    edited November -1
    pickenup wrote:
    You said "not wearing your wedding ring" Guess since I do not have one, and never have, I should not be answering this.
    Yep, me neither I guess.
  • nmyersnmyers Member Posts: 16,892 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Not for many years.

    When I was a corpsman in the Army, I saw several "de-gloving" injuries. At that time, the only treatment was amputation of the finger. Today, microsurgery has improved to the point that hospital "hand centers" can sometimes sew everything back together, provided the skin isn't too mangled.

    I recommend that those who work around machinery, ladders, & vehicles leave all rings at home.

    Neal
  • bambihunterbambihunter Member Posts: 10,792 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    When I first got married in 1990, I worked a manual labor job so along with our nice wedding set, I also bought a plain gold band. I wore it for many years. Then, completely inexplicably, I woke up one day claustrophobic regarding jewelry. I can't wear watches, rings, necklace/chains, etc. I think it bugs my wife a little bit. She brings it up every few years.

    I don't think this had any impact to my phobia with them, but a mechanic friend of mine has a burned wedding ring. He arced across a starter and frame with his ring and it burned a circle on his finger quit bad. Now, not only does he have a scar ring, he has less functionality with that finger. So, be careful when working with electricity. :o
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  • gearheaddadgearheaddad Member Posts: 15,091 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    When I first got married in 1990, I worked a manual labor job so along with our nice wedding set, I also bought a plain gold band. I wore it for many years. Then, completely inexplicably, I woke up one day claustrophobic regarding jewelry. I can't wear watches, rings, necklace/chains, etc. I think it bugs my wife a little bit. She brings it up every few years.

    I don't think this had any impact to my phobia with them, but a mechanic friend of mine has a burned wedding ring. He arced across a starter and frame with his ring and it burned a circle on his finger quit bad. Now, not only does he have a scar ring, he has less functionality with that finger. So, be careful when working with electricity. :o
    I arc'd across the solenoid/starter with my Class Ring and was able to pull away. The Class Ring still has 2 small burn marks on it! No Scar, so I guess I'm pretty lucky....
  • firstharmonicfirstharmonic Member Posts: 1,072 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Worked as an electrician for years; my wedding ring sat in a jewelry box at home. Retired in 2003 and started wearing it again. It does come off when it is an injury risk, but I put it back on right away. That ring was given to me 44 years ago by a wonderful woman and it symbolizes so much. But in my opinion anyone working in the trades who wears a ring is making a big mistake.
  • diver-rigdiver-rig Member Posts: 6,336 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I?ve never worn a ring, never will. Don?t wear any jewelry/ watches, nothing.

    Lucked out, and my MOS in the ?Corps would not allow dog tags. One in boot laces, one in breast pocket. 2841, ground radio repair. Worked on things with huage capacitors, the size of pop cans.

    My wife wears a wedding ring, and that?s it. Wouldn?t bother me if she put it up and never wore it again.

    I trust her, and she me, or we never would have married.



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  • Okie MomOkie Mom Member Posts: 1,234 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Wore my wedding ring until 2 years after my husband died, 28 years. When I took it off I replaced it with my birthstone with a few tiny diamonds.
    Only time without my wedding ring or a ring on my left hand was for a couple of surgeries.

    Just doesn't seem right without a ring there.
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