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May have to put my dog down. (decision)

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  • gunnut505gunnut505 Member Posts: 10,290
    edited November -1
    Damn, Ken; first you blow all your Vet money on guns, then your Buddy gets all wonky!
    Just a suggestion from an ex-Animal Care Tech; try a small dose of mineral oil (FOOD GRADE) to see if he might get things moving "down there". I know it won't help damaged discs, but less pressure is still less pressure.
    There are also several makers of "kidney belts" for canines, and my friend's wienerdog wears one on longer walks. He drags it around the house to let everyone know it's time to go "walkies".
    Best to you'n'Buddy!
  • BikerBobBikerBob Member Posts: 2,745 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Hi Ken,

    I'd listen to Woody and try a chiropractor. We used an animal one on the horse once with good results. What have you got to lose and then you know you would have tried all you could before you give up.

    I hate putting down dogs, our vet was almost as upset as me on the last one. That's the sign of a caring vet, said whe. He quit caring so much it would be time to stop being a vet.

    Good luck
  • Doc FeelgoodDoc Feelgood Member Posts: 542 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Please check your e-mail.
  • Doc FeelgoodDoc Feelgood Member Posts: 542 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Just got notice that for some reason my e-mail was not allowed to go through to you. Don't know why it can't go through GunBroker but that is the only way I knew to reach you. Would like to discuss Buddy with you without hanging everything out here on public forum. Have been in practice now for 55 years and may have some options for you.
  • allen griggsallen griggs Member Posts: 35,666 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Doc: Look at the email that got kicked back. It should include the email address that you desired. Just c and p that and you can email him directly.
  • skicatskicat Member Posts: 14,431
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by Doc Feelgood
    Just got notice that for some reason my e-mail was not allowed to go through to you. Don't know why it can't go through GunBroker but that is the only way I knew to reach you. Would like to discuss Buddy with you without hanging everything out here on public forum. Have been in practice now for 55 years and may have some options for you.


    If the email got bounced back to you with a note saying your communication to "XXXXXXX @ YYYYYYY,COM" didn't work then cut and paste his address directly onto your Email address line and send that way. I have had to do that in the past while contacting various members here.
  • OakieOakie Member Posts: 40,521 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Hang in there Ken and give him some time. We lost our schnauzer to broken disc in her back. She was 16 and very healthy. Jumped off the bed and it was all over. Had to put her down three days later. I laid on the floor with her all three days, with our son, till the day came. She was in too much pain and I knew she couldn't take anymore. First time I cried in twenty five years. I would say that, as long as your buddy is eating, having movements, then she might be starting to heal. Who knows. I would at least try to get him to a real vet for dogs. Might be worth the drive. I know I would make the drive somewhere, no matter how far. We owe it to them, in my opinion. I will keep praying for you two.Oak
  • retroxler58retroxler58 Member Posts: 32,693 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Good thoughts for Buddy.
  • sxsnufsxsnuf Member Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Prayers for you and Buddy!
    As stated above, get the opinion of a REAL vet. One that understands this is a family member, not a beast of burden.
    My daughter's "sausage dog" hurt herself jumping off the couch and lost the use of her hindquarters.
    Daughter wouldn't give up on her.
    After chiro and accupuncture, the lil' mutt is well on the road to recovery.
    Extaordinary measures??
    Maybe so, but she figured her friend was worth it.
    I'm sure Buddy is too!
    Good luck to you both.
    Arrivederci gigi
  • 84Bravo184Bravo1 Member Posts: 10,461 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Slept on the floor right below the couch with him on it. He wanted direct contact with me the whole time.

    About 1am I went to go urinate. He slid off the couch and tried to follow me. (A few feet.)

    When I came back, we both bedded down on the floor there. He wanted my arm on him.
    He was kinda moving around, and kept licking my face & moved a foot or so several times toward the front door. It should have donned on me, but it didn't, that he needed to pee also. So he did.

    It had been at least 24 hrs since he had. I was glad to see him pee. I cleaned it up, we bedded back down. His tail thumping lightly.

    He has had a few sips of water ever few hours, and just now I gave him 1/2 can of moist turkey & gravy dog food, which he inhaled, not noticing the several pills hidden in it. He had had no interest in food before that. It was good to see him eat.

    He seemed to perk up with the food. Tail thumping again. Sitting with him draped all over me on the couch right now. He has not has a bowel movement in at least 30 hrs or so, so I do not know what to expect there.

    Again, thanks to all.

    -Ken-
  • beneteaubeneteau Member Posts: 8,552 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Thanks for the update. Still praying in Mississippi.
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  • nunnnunn Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 36,083 ******
    edited November -1
    Our basset blew a disc and his back legs were paralyzed. Went to vet, took X-rays. It was bad. Vet suggested muscle relaxers, but didn't seem hopeful. We tried the muscle relaxers over a weekend, but Buster didn't get any better.

    He wouldn't potty in the house; we had to carry him outside, or else he would just drag himself out.

    Monday, Dawnie cooked him a ribeye steak. Buster said his goodbyes to all the family members, and we took him for his last vet visit.

    It was a tough thing, but he was weary of his condition and ready to go on.
  • asopasop Member Posts: 9,005 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Never easy. Prayers and hope the best for the two of you.
  • montanajoemontanajoe Forums Admins, Member, Moderator Posts: 60,159 ******
    edited November -1
  • john wjohn w Member Posts: 4,104
    edited November -1
    Prayers for Buddy.
  • Sig220_Ruger77Sig220_Ruger77 Member Posts: 12,754 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Prayers and well wishes sent your way friend!

    Jon
  • bullshotbullshot Member Posts: 14,702 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Did you contact Doc Feelgood yet?
    "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean they're not out to get you"
  • retroxler58retroxler58 Member Posts: 32,693 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    My heart has gone out to you and your Buddy.
  • 84Bravo184Bravo1 Member Posts: 10,461 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Its time. I will be driving Buddy to the Vets office, as soon as he opens this morning.

    It's the right thing to do. I will not go into all the heartbreaking details.

    Snowed 4 inches or so overnight was about 20*, ground will be frozen.I can't seem to catch a break.

    I appreciate all your thoughts and prayers.

    -Ken-
  • JamesRKJamesRK Member Posts: 25,670 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I recently lost an Australian Shepherd in similar circumstances. I know it hurts but you are doing the right thing. God bless you and yours.
    The road to hell is paved with COMPROMISE.
  • ChrisStreettChrisStreett Member Posts: 3,847 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Ken, it's a terrible decision you have to make for Buddy. You, and only you, know what the best course of action for your best friend is. Having been down that road way too many times over the years, all I can offer is my support and deepest sympathy while you and Buddy travel this path.
    "...dying ain't much of a living boy"-Josey Wales
  • Doc FeelgoodDoc Feelgood Member Posts: 542 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Ken, you have my deepest condolences. I know it was a difficult decision. I have gone through the same agony with my own. Sometimes we are more concerned with our own feelings than with what's best for our friend. Joe
  • mjrfd99mjrfd99 Member Posts: 4,553 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Biggest prayers we can send for you and Buddy.
  • Sam06Sam06 Member Posts: 21,244 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Its the right thing to do but its still tough.

    Best medicine is to get a puppy ASAP.
    RLTW

  • Aztngundoc22Aztngundoc22 Member Posts: 2,314 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    84Bravo1 :

    Really sorry for you !!!!

    Not much in life is worse !!!!!!!

    Good Luck !

    Prayers done !

    Thanks !!!
    The more people I meet : The more I like my Dog :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:


    I Grew Old Too Fast (And Smart Too damn Slow !!!) !!! :o :?
  • Old-ColtsOld-Colts Member Posts: 22,697 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I'm very sorry it has come to this, but it sounds like you and buddy said your goodbyes in a very special way. Be careful on your trip to the Vet and take care.

    If you can't feel the music; it's only pink noise!

  • 84Bravo184Bravo1 Member Posts: 10,461 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    I'm at peace with my decision. It was the right thing to do for him.

    We did indeed spend some extremely close quality time, over these last 4-5 days. It made me appreciate what an incredibly good dog, and friend I had.

    I miss him already.

    Will have to say my final goodbyes here shortly. I'm having a few beers in his honor, before going out.

    He is curled up in the front seat of the Jeep. I'm trying to decide in my mind on the spot.
  • JustCJustC Member Posts: 16,056 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    Heartfelt Condolences from here 84Bravo1.[V][:(]
  • swearengineswearengine Member Posts: 1,308 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by sxsnuf
    Prayers for you and Buddy!
    As stated above, get the opinion of a REAL vet. One that understands this is a family member, not a beast of burden.
    My daughter's "sausage dog" hurt herself jumping off the couch and lost the use of her hindquarters.
    Daughter wouldn't give up on her.
    After chiro and accupuncture, the lil' mutt is well on the road to recovery.
    Extaordinary measures??
    Maybe so, but she figured her friend was worth it.
    I'm sure Buddy is too!
    Good luck to you both.




    An 80 year old farm vet is a real vet. Just because he gave a diagnosis the recipient did not wish to hear does not make him uncaring.
    At his age he is probably more caring because he is still practicing because of his love for the animals.
    He was very ethical in the fact that he did not prescribe extraordinary measures just to pad his pocket at the expense of a patient who was under duress.
  • 84Bravo184Bravo1 Member Posts: 10,461 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by swearengine
    quote:Originally posted by sxsnuf
    Prayers for you and Buddy!
    As stated above, get the opinion of a REAL vet. One that understands this is a family member, not a beast of burden.
    My daughter's "sausage dog" hurt herself jumping off the couch and lost the use of her hindquarters.
    Daughter wouldn't give up on her.
    After chiro and accupuncture, the lil' mutt is well on the road to recovery.
    Extaordinary measures??
    Maybe so, but she figured her friend was worth it.
    I'm sure Buddy is too!
    Good luck to you both.




    An 80 year old farm vet is a real vet. Just because he gave a diagnosis the recipient did not wish to hear does not make him uncaring.
    At his age he is probably more caring because he is still practicing because of his love for the animals.
    He was very ethical in the fact that he did not prescribe extraordinary measures just to pad his pocket at the expense of a patient who was under duress.



    I would agree.

    He was very compassionate on my request this am, (first one in the door.) To euthanize my Bud.

    I was very pleased with the overall experience, and his compassion for both me and my dog.

    It was a very difficult thing to go through, but I know I did the right thing.

    I was going to drive 35 mi away to have it done. I'm glad (now) I did not.

    I shook his hand, and told him I realized this was not any easy thing for him to do, and I wanted him to know how much I appreciated it.

    I thank you for your comment.

    -Ken-
  • swearengineswearengine Member Posts: 1,308 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    quote:Originally posted by 84Bravo1
    quote:Originally posted by swearengine
    quote:Originally posted by sxsnuf
    Prayers for you and Buddy!
    As stated above, get the opinion of a REAL vet. One that understands this is a family member, not a beast of burden.
    My daughter's "sausage dog" hurt herself jumping off the couch and lost the use of her hindquarters.
    Daughter wouldn't give up on her.
    After chiro and accupuncture, the lil' mutt is well on the road to recovery.
    Extaordinary measures??
    Maybe so, but she figured her friend was worth it.
    I'm sure Buddy is too!
    Good luck to you both.




    An 80 year old farm vet is a real vet. Just because he gave a diagnosis the recipient did not wish to hear does not make him uncaring.
    At his age he is probably more caring because he is still practicing because of his love for the animals.
    He was very ethical in the fact that he did not prescribe extraordinary measures just to pad his pocket at the expense of a patient who was under duress.



    I would agree.

    He was very compassionate on my request this am, (first one in the door.) To euthanize my Bud.

    I was very pleased with the overall experience, and his compassion for both me and my dog.

    It was a very difficult thing to go through, but I know I did the right thing.

    I was going to drive 35 mi away to have it done. I'm glad (now) I did not.

    I shook his hand, and told him I realized this was not any easy thing for him to do, and I wanted him to know how much I appreciated it.

    I thank you for your comment.

    -Ken-



    You are welcome.
  • sxsnufsxsnuf Member Posts: 2,952 ✭✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    My comments were based on your description of the 1st vet visit.
    "Brusque", "uncaring", what you expected based on many reviews.
    Sounds now like you were happy with your choice in the end.
    Deepest condolences on your monumental loss.
    RIP Buddy!
    Arrivederci gigi
  • 84Bravo184Bravo1 Member Posts: 10,461 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Originally posted by sxsnuf
    My comments were based on your description of the 1st vet visit.
    "Brusque", "uncaring", what you expected based on many reviews.
    Sounds now like you were happy with your choice in the end.
    Deepest condolences on your monumental loss.
    RIP Buddy!
    [\quote]


    I'm not upset with you Brother.

    Those were indeed my words, and my initial impression. Maybe grief clouded my perception initially.

    I appreciate your condolences.

    -Ken-
  • abrickrockabrickrock Member Posts: 39 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Sorry for your loss.
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